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Old 08-18-2008, 02:03 PM   #61
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I'm so sorry.

Please take advantage of all the support you can get -- your parents, your dogs, your counselor. And your friends here.
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Old 08-18-2008, 02:18 PM   #62
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. Please take all the time you need to heal.
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Old 08-18-2008, 03:01 PM   #63
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I am so very sorry,honey.
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Old 08-18-2008, 03:03 PM   #64
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I am so sorry. I hope that you will be able to find peace.

I hope you have much support and love from those around you.
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Old 08-18-2008, 03:27 PM   #65
 
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be patient with yourself. you don't have to "do" anything right now. your body has been through a lot, not to mention your heart & soul. give yourself & your body time to rest and heal.
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Old 08-18-2008, 04:43 PM   #66
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Cuddle up with your "boys" and let your parents take care of you for a while. It's okay to grieve the end of a relationship and the loss of your baby. Take time to rest and heal, and don't be afraid to get counselling if you need to talk to someone. It really can help.
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Old 08-18-2008, 09:41 PM   #67
 
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Old 08-18-2008, 10:02 PM   #68
 
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I second the recommendation for a support group. Also, maybe just the act of doing something for someone, whatever that maybe, will help.

I remember when I was going through a period of intense hurting that the teqaching I was doing - helping kids- really helped to take my mind off my situation.
This is really good advice. When you're ready, it definitely helps get your mind off of things and helps you to rise up a little. I'm so sorry for your loss. ((( hugs and love ))) I think for the time being, maybe you should just not worry too much about what you're supposed to be doing. Just "be" for a little while and take care of yourself. I hope something really wonderful is waiting around the corner for you, luvmylocs.
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Old 08-19-2008, 10:11 AM   #69
 
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thanks so much to all of you! i'm back at work today. i'm feeling better. i filled out the baby memory book they gave me at the hospital and that was a nice, cathartic experience. i remembered the joy i felt and i actually smiled. i put all his things in the memory box.

i'm going to see my counselor today. i'm reading a christian based book that has been very helpful in dealing with my double loss. i wrote in my journal last night. i'm taking it day by day. i keep reflecting on a scripture my daddy shared with me and that has helped. i just keep repeating it when i get down.

Proverbs 3:5-6
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

thanks again friends!
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Old 08-19-2008, 12:09 PM   #70
 
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I had no idea you were going through so much. SO sorry for you loss, sweetie.

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