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Old 08-17-2008, 07:10 PM   #1
 
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Some of you know I was pregnant with my 6th child. He was stillborn this past Tuesday. We found out the day before he had no heartbeat. My doctor thinks the umbilical cord clotted and cut off his blood supply. I was 37 weeks pregnant.

The reason I'm posting this is a lot of us, myself included, take for granted the health and very existance of our children. We tend to complain about things that in the long run mean nothing. We all recover from sleepless nights. Cherish every moment.

For those of you moms who have experienced the same thing, I'm feeling great pain for you too. I know Gabriel is looking at the face of God and that helps a bit. But I miss him.

The link is a friend of mine's blog. Read Sorrow and Faith. The first picture is me pregnant with Gabriel and my sweet James hugging my belly.

http://catholicfamilyvignettes.wordpress.com/

http://www.legacy.com/dispatch/Obitu...onID=115644627

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Old 08-17-2008, 07:14 PM   #2
 
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I have no words. I am so sorry!
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Old 08-17-2008, 07:15 PM   #3
 
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i'm so sorry {{{hugs}}}


you and your family will be in my thoughts..
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I'm so sorry...
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Oh wow, I am so sorry for your loss. I am just speechless.
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Old 08-17-2008, 07:19 PM   #7
 
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I'm so sorry.
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Old 08-17-2008, 07:19 PM   #8
 
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How devastating. I am so sorry. May you find comfort in your faith.
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Old 08-17-2008, 07:20 PM   #9
 
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I am so very sorry.
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I'm so very sorry. Your post shows that you have a strong spirit, and I hope that will help you to find comfort. Know that many people are thinking of you and wishing you well.
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I am so sorry. {{{hugs}}}
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So very sorry about your loss. Take care.
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I am so sorry. I'll be thinking of you.
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Old 08-17-2008, 07:26 PM   #14
 
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Oh, Ivy. I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Gabriel. My heart breaks for you and your family. What a sweet little boy. May you find peace and comfort in your faith and each other at this terrible time. God bless you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
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((HUGS)). He was beautiful. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. Thank you for sharing your insight.
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
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I'm so sorry.......so sorry.
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Oh, I am so sorry. (((((hugs to you and your family)))))

You are so right about cherishing every moment with loved ones.
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I'm so sorry
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