Oy vey...someday you need to figure out that it's her body, not yours. Not everyone can be a size 8, and it's probably a bit insulting to all the normal size 14's out there that you find it so disgusting that anyone could be that size. People come in all shapes and sizes. I hope someday you can love your daughter for who she is, not what you want her to be. It must suck to be so disappointed about something so trivial.