Girl, stop yourself...
She'll be fine...
Why did you start this thread, anyway?
You know you are gonna take lotsa heat for this, right? lol
Just make sure you're not Granny Frau sooner than you'd like, right?
Frau, forgive me, are you referring to your daughter?
She's in college, isn't she? It's not unusual for kids to gain during that time because of having irregular schedules, and lots of stress and socializing. I bet she figures it out on her own, over time.
(my dogs aren't snarly, my hair is)
Maybe you should keep a journal for your thoughts instead--something only you can see which allows you to vent. This has come up before and you did not get positive responses. I just don't see the point in broadcasting your disappointment over this on a public forum.