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Old 11-13-2008, 12:09 PM   #21
 
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This is becoming a trend for her. She said something similar during the whole fiasco with her jumping in the SUV and following someone. She mentioned something about the colored people in the SUV. I can't remember the details.
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Hmm, I had no idea it was offensive. Old fashioned, yeah, but I didn't know it was bad to say. I do know some people don't like to call Barack Obama "black" because he is half-white as well. So that would have been the first thing I thought of hearing "colored." But I don't really know enough about the topic and history of the term to make a judgement call as to what she might have meant.
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Old 11-13-2008, 12:23 PM   #23
 
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FWIW, I'm not crazy about the term "people of color" either, but IMO it sounds better than "minorities", which is often the alternative.
I don't like the term "minorities." At all.

But I do refer to myself as a woman of color. My experience in this world is shaped more by the color of my skin, than by my Hispanic heritage.
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I had no idea the term "colored" was coming back. Bravo, if no one's offended by it. When I read about Lindsay calling Obama colored it cracked me up. Honestly, I think Lindsay had a moment of ignorance, or maybe I'm having a moment of ignorance since I didn't know colored was coming back. My mother has always said colored, and still does. She definitely doesn't mean harm by it.
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Old 11-13-2008, 12:50 PM   #26
 
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I had no idea the term "colored" was coming back.
??? I really don't think it is.
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Old 11-13-2008, 01:01 PM   #27
 
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That's interesting to me, I hadn't realized some people take offense to that word. Is it because when you add up all the so-called minorities they're not such a minority anymore or because of the connotations of the word "minor", regardless of the statistical meaning of the word "minority"?
Both.
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FWIW, I'm not crazy about the term "people of color" either, but IMO it sounds better than "minorities", which is often the alternative.
I don't like the term "minorities." At all.

But I do refer to myself as a woman of color. My experience in this world is shaped more by the color of my skin, than by my Hispanic heritage.
You know, I definitely see your point and feel that it's true to a large degree for me as well. Esp. since I am of "ambiguous ethnicity", as some of my friends and I call it. The color of my skin has definitely shaped a lot of my experiences more than my race has.
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FWIW, I'm not crazy about the term "people of color" either, but IMO it sounds better than "minorities", which is often the alternative.
I don't like the term "minorities." At all.

But I do refer to myself as a woman of color. My experience in this world is shaped more by the color of my skin, than by my Hispanic heritage.
That's interesting to me, I hadn't realized some people take offense to that word. Is it because when you add up all the so-called minorities they're not such a minority anymore or because of the connotations of the word "minor", regardless of the statistical meaning of the word "minority"? Or something else? I'm not being snarky, just wondering.
No problem- I wouldn't have taken that as snarky at all. Personally I do not consider it to be offensive, but it is a little cringe-worthy. I've never really given it that much thought, but it feels a little... condescending. And like you said, it's becoming less and less true every day.

ETA: I also don't think of the word "colored" as necessarily offensive either... but honestly it does sound ignorant to me.
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Some people find it offensive because of its history. Like the n-word. It's reminiscent of the Jim Crow days.

When I think of the term "colored", I think of this:




Am I personally offended, no. I guess the offense would depend on its usage. I've heard the term used in a derogatory tone, and the intent WAS to be offensive.
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Thank you. That's something I'll have to think about.
Ha! I was standing in my kitchen a minute ago thinking about our exchange and came back to write that offensive isn't the right word. I was going to write that it makes me cringe and then I saw Gemini13's post.

Cosigning everything she wrote in her last post.
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Thank you. That's something I'll have to think about.
Ha! I was standing in my kitchen a minute ago thinking about our exchange and came back to write that offensive isn't the right word. I was going to write that it makes me cringe and then I saw Gemini13's post.

Cosigning everything she wrote in her last post.
Hehe, great minds...
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Old 11-13-2008, 02:26 PM   #35
 
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Along the same lines, does anyone think the NAACP should update the name of the organization?
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Off topic (kinda), but have any of you read Lohan's blogs?? Hahahaha. It is SO obvious that she is paying someone to write them.
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Along the same lines, does anyone think the NAACP should update the name of the organization?
yes!

but if they change their name, they would have to constantly follow it with "the organization formerly known as the NAACP."
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Colored doesn't offend me. I just think Lindsay does things for attention, not because she's some uber enlightened being or whatever.
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Old 11-13-2008, 06:42 PM   #39
 
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I dont know her or interact with her so nothing she says can offend me.

What I am stunned by is that some of you ladies use this word or think its "cute" or okay. If you wouldnt use it to refer to a non-white person to their face then I think that should clue you in that the word doesnt have a benign connotation.


for the record "colored" is not making a comeback

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Old 11-13-2008, 07:58 PM   #40
 
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I find coloured offensive. I don't know if she is stupid, uninformed, trying to get attention or what.

Obama is our President. He is a man. I voted for the man, not the color of his skin.
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