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Last edited by alisons79; 07-10-2009 at 06:03 PM.
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It definitely can be tracked...
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what a prick...karma...
What he did is called "spoofing" or a "Joe job" and it's pretty easy to do. IT can pull the headers of the email and see the originating IP address.
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yeah, they can check the IP address...and he could lose his job (maybe get arrested?).
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Have you told HR that your ex is stalking you? Your job should be aware so if he tries something such as this again or something else, they are aware and won't automatically assume you are the culprit.
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If your employer is going to fire you over this, they need to be darned sure you sent that email or face a lawsuit. It can definitely be tracked, both to prove you didn't send it and to prove the person you think sent it did.

I wouldn't wait for them to come to you. By that time, the damage to your reputation is done. I would go to HR now and ask them to look into this. I can't tell if your ex works at your company or not. If he does not, and he's harassing you, they can block emails from him. If he does work there, he should lose his job.
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I love Jessicurl HCC, Jessicurl Too Shea, KCKT, KCCC, CK and HESMU...but it took a LOT of trial error to get to these products that consistently work for ME.

Last edited by alisons79; 07-10-2009 at 01:30 PM.
What did the email say? If you can share...
No MAS.

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"Hope the Mail are saving space tomorrow for Samantha Brick's reaction piece on the reactions to her piece about the reactions to her piece." ~ Tweet reposted by Rou.

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I love Jessicurl HCC, Jessicurl Too Shea, KCKT, KCCC, CK and HESMU...but it took a LOT of trial error to get to these products that consistently work for ME.

Last edited by alisons79; 07-10-2009 at 01:29 PM.
If this was all done on work computers, most likely there is an email trail, and IT can see that your co-worker forwarded the email to your ex-boyfriend, and you should be in the clear.

And this is why coworkers shouldn't date...it can get so messy when there is a breakup.
Life shrinks or expands according to one's courage. Anais Nin

Last edited by Windflower; 02-15-2009 at 04:59 PM.
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I love Jessicurl HCC, Jessicurl Too Shea, KCKT, KCCC, CK and HESMU...but it took a LOT of trial error to get to these products that consistently work for ME.

Last edited by alisons79; 07-10-2009 at 01:31 PM.
Well, if it helps, I think you'll be OK because 1) he quit. And that makes it look like he's trying to run from something; 2) At the same time he's claiming you sent him the email to cheat, he was the one receiving the "cheat sheet," so he'll look complicit in the wrongdoing, if they believe there is any, and; 3) an ex-employee forwarding a message from a former colleague (that at least some others in the office probably know he was dating) will look like sour grapes.
No MAS.

I am the new Black.

"Hope the Mail are saving space tomorrow for Samantha Brick's reaction piece on the reactions to her piece about the reactions to her piece." ~ Tweet reposted by Rou.

http://www.youtube.com/user/Kimshi4242

http://www.tumblr.com/blog/kimshi4242
bump...

Alisons79, any updates?
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You picked a real winner there.
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I love Jessicurl HCC, Jessicurl Too Shea, KCKT, KCCC, CK and HESMU...but it took a LOT of trial error to get to these products that consistently work for ME.

Last edited by alisons79; 07-10-2009 at 01:32 PM.
I'm glad it got taken care of with HR. I would consider letting your superviser know what's going on in case your ex shows up or tries to make trouble for you.

Did you end up getting a restraining order against him?
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3A/3B
I love Jessicurl HCC, Jessicurl Too Shea, KCKT, KCCC, CK and HESMU...but it took a LOT of trial error to get to these products that consistently work for ME.

Last edited by alisons79; 07-10-2009 at 01:32 PM.
Ugh, what a nightmare. I'm glad it's resolved, at least for now. Good luck!
The damage to reputation has already been done. I am going to be questioned about this tomorrow at work.

The only thing I can think to do is to refer them to IT.

Until then, I feel that perhaps I should also fill them in on the personal matters at hand so that it will at least explain the paranoid and unstable person that they are dealing with.

He has already been fired/quit. He quit and then management tried to help him (not knowing about the personal matters between he and I) and then when he was supposed to some back to work, he sent this e-mail instead and then didn't show up for a week. I'm thinking that he may have been fired for not showing up but who knows....at this point, I don't care, either way, he's gone!
Originally Posted by alisons79
I had the exact same situation (aside from the email) but I had to meet with HR to let them know of potentials before they happened so that they had a head's up.

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