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Old 03-07-2009, 02:39 PM   #1
 
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So I've noticed my wife does something that at least I think is weird. I would say this happens at least 80% of the time.

We live in a two story house our bedroom is upstairs and so is "my bathroom" she has her own. Anyway, any time I go up stairs to take a shower the minute or so I get out she is either coming up stairs or already in our adjacent bedroom. Again this happens 80% of the time. I've asked her about it and she says she doesn't realize she's doing it.

It happened today. We are going to met some friends for dinner so I decided to jump in the shower. I get out and she's sitting on our bed talking to her sister on the phone. She never goes up stairs to talk on the phone.

So what am I missing here?
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I'm missing as to why this is an issue?
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My first thought is she's hoping to find you naked, and wants to get busy.
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Maybe she's stalking you.
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I'm missing as to why this is an issue?
It wouldn't be an issue if it was every once in a while, but it's all the time.

You wouldn't find it weird if you went to a totally different area of the house, and your S.O. followed you for no reason?
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My first thought is she's hoping to find you naked, and wants to get busy.
Doubtful.
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I'm missing as to why this is an issue?
It wouldn't be an issue if it was every once in a while, but it's all the time.

You wouldn't find it weird if you went to a totally different area of the house, and your S.O. followed you for no reason?
No not really. We live in a apartment, there's not really any other part to go to. Sometimes he follows me into the bedroom, he's a puppy like that. I don't think anything of it besides him wanting something, sex, attention, talking, cuddling or just to see me.
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What Cymp said. And who's your wife? A member here, I guess?
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I wouldn't find it weird at all if my spouse was "following" me around the house, and actually, it doesn't sound like she's even following you! Before you get in the shower do you ask her to please leave you alone? THEN I would find it weird, but otherwise... I don't understand what you are conceiving to be the problem.
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No she is not a member here.
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So I've noticed my wife does something that at least I think is weird. I would say this happens at least 80% of the time.

We live in a two story house our bedroom is upstairs and so is "my bathroom" she has her own. Anyway, any time I go up stairs to take a shower the minute or so I get out she is either coming up stairs or already in our adjacent bedroom. Again this happens 80% of the time. I've asked her about it and she says she doesn't realize she's doing it.

It happened today. We are going to met some friends for dinner so I decided to jump in the shower. I get out and she's sitting on our bed talking to her sister on the phone. She never goes up stairs to talk on the phone.

So what am I missing here?
I guess I'm the one who is missing something here.

You say when you use the bathroom(yours) which is adjacent to your shared bedroom, and you think it's odd that she goes into your shared bedroom to talk on the phone.
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My first thought is she's hoping to find you naked, and wants to get busy.
Doubtful.

OK, if it isn't that, maybe she just wants to be near you.

Just an FYI - I haven't had a peaceful shower in years. Years. Mr. Meryn seems to have really. deep. thoughts. when I'm in the shower, and his head is in the curtain chattering at me like a monkey on most days. At least you have peace IN the shower!

I guess I never really thought about it, maybe I'll ask him why he does that and get back with ya!
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I wouldn't find it weird at all if my spouse was "following" me around the house, and actually, it doesn't sound like she's even following you! Before you get in the shower do you ask her to please leave you alone? THEN I would find it weird, but otherwise... I don't understand what you are conceiving to be the problem.
We live in a pretty big house around 2500sf You wouldn't find it weird if you went to a completly different area of the house to lets say use the bathroom and when you walk out your husband is right there 80% of the time?
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Why exactly does it bother you? Are you hiding something you don't want her to see?

Sounds like she just likes to be near you. Enjoy it.

My husband always comes looking for me in the house first thing when he gets home. I like it, even though sometimes he catches me in the can. It means he missed me.
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Where is her b/r?
May be it's time to switch...
May be she is spying on you & it turns her on...has she never pounced on you afterwards?
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So I've noticed my wife does something that at least I think is weird. I would say this happens at least 80% of the time.

We live in a two story house our bedroom is upstairs and so is "my bathroom" she has her own. Anyway, any time I go up stairs to take a shower the minute or so I get out she is either coming up stairs or already in our adjacent bedroom. Again this happens 80% of the time. I've asked her about it and she says she doesn't realize she's doing it.

It happened today. We are going to met some friends for dinner so I decided to jump in the shower. I get out and she's sitting on our bed talking to her sister on the phone. She never goes up stairs to talk on the phone.

So what am I missing here?
I guess I'm the one who is missing something here.

You say when you use the bathroom(yours) which is adjacent to your shared bedroom, and you think it's odd that she goes into your shared bedroom to talk on the phone.
When she talks on the phone she goes into the living room. today when I went to go take a shower she was in the family room watching TV. When I get out she is in our bedroom. So there I am getting dress and head back down to the family room. she comes down 2 minutes later.
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We live in a pretty big house around 2500sf You wouldn't find it weird if you went to a completly different area of the house to lets say use the bathroom and when you walk out your husband is right there 80% of the time?

Not really, unless this a recent development?

Just ask her. Kindly. She may not even realize she's doing in. I've had to have the "get off my leg" speech with SO. (not that mean of course)... everyone needs a little breathing room.
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Why exactly does it bother you? Are you hiding something you don't want her to see?

Sounds like she just likes to be near you. Enjoy it.

My husband always comes looking for me in the house first thing when he gets home. I like it, even though sometimes he catches me in the can. It means he missed me.
No I'm not hiding anything I just find it weird.
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I'm going to dinner lets have this figured out by the time I get back.

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