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Old 03-15-2009, 04:53 PM   #61
 
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And its especially hard to come back here and admit it when so many people have told you not to do it (and I agreed with what everyone had to say). Whatever is going on, I hope she is ok.
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Old 03-15-2009, 05:54 PM   #62
 
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SG, I can speak for everyone obviously but I hope you know we will not judge you no matter what you decide.
I am sure by now you two have spoken.

Even if you decide to stay, and he still is undecisive, then either way you let him know how you feel. That is more than what was happening before. You will know better what is going on in his head if he doesn't let you know because of his actions. You are that much closer to a decision even if not there yet.
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Old 03-15-2009, 05:57 PM   #63
 
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SG, I can speak for everyone obviously but I hope you know we will not judge you no matter what you decide.
I am sure by now you two have spoken.

Even if you decide to stay, and he still is undecisive, then either way you let him know how you feel. That is more than what was happening before. You will know better what is going on in his head if he doesn't let you know because of his actions. You are that much closer to a decision even if not there yet.
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I had a hard time leaving a situation that I knew was not going anywhere, and I stayed 6 months longer than I should have. I knew I had to go, but I just couldn't. I think many of us have been there and can understand that.
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Old 03-15-2009, 06:04 PM   #64
 
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It's very easy for us to tell you what we think you should do since we aren't living it. You are entitled to live your life the way you want without being judged by us. And I hope everyone here would respect your choice.

I hope things work out the way you want. Be well, SG, and let us know how you're doing.
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Old 03-16-2009, 12:17 AM   #65
 
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Just want to say I agree with those about not judging you, if that's why you're not back here. Maybe you've just had a busy weekend, maybe things worked out, or not. Whatever happened, let us know when you can. We're all thinking of you and we're here for you.
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Old 03-16-2009, 12:27 PM   #66
 
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The sad thing is, sometimes our hearts want things that realistically just aren't attainable. It hurts, and there will be times where you'll think of him.
This is so true.

Hope you are okay, SG.
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