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Old 04-10-2009, 10:06 AM   #1
 
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Unhappy hello friends

i have been soooo busy with my career
i haven't been by lately
sorry

also
my mom passed away last friday
and her funeral was wednesday

an ex bf of mine (who attended the service)
went to that infamous message board known as the geek club
and posted a derogatory report of events that happened there
basically referring to it as a hillbilly requiem
and
as you might have imagined, the geek replies were totally heartless
i asked the board moderator to delete the thread and to his civility, he did

i won't mention said bf's name nor will i advertise the other heartless culprits who slammed my mom but for those of you here who post there, i wonder why no one spoke up on my behalf

i'm catching a flight back to florida shortly but wanted my voice heard here

thank you, ladies

s.
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Old 04-10-2009, 10:10 AM   #2
 
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I'm so sorry about your mom.
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Old 04-10-2009, 10:28 AM   #3
 
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I'm sorry about your Mom, also. I don't go to that particular forum. I can't understand how anyone could say cruel things about your Mom's death/funeral. (((HUGS)))
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Old 04-10-2009, 10:31 AM   #4
 
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I'm so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. Please be strong, be good to yourself, and don't let the ingnorance of others get you down - it shows more about them, and nothing about you or your family.
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Im sorry to hear about your mother. Take no notice of what ignorant people say, some people can be very cruel. Like Lisa said it is more a reflection of them then of you or your mum.
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I'm so sorry.
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Sorry about your mom.


The Ex is a tool.
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I'm so sorry about your mom and to hear that someone would so cruel as to make fun of someone's death and funeral. I don't know what the geek forum is, but I don't think they sound like people worth your time.

I hope you are able to find comfort in happy memories.
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I am so sorry about your mom.

And what a jerk that ex is...there's a reason he's your ex.
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I am very sorry to hear about your mom.

I post at FFT occasionally, and I don't recall seeing that thread, perhaps that's why I didn't stand up for you. While there used to be several of us that posted here and there, I am thinking it's only down to a small handful at this point. So, I can't speak for others, but I don't post there as much as I used to, and I missed that thread entirely.

I like that the moderator deleted the post for you, as I don't think that any one should be subjected to that after the death of a loved one, and I am sorry that you went through that. As it's been stated, your ex is a tool.

Again, I am very sorry for your loss.
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry about your mom and to hear that someone would so cruel as to make fun of someone's death and funeral. I don't know what the geek forum is, but I don't think they sound like people worth your time.

I hope you are able to find comfort in happy memories.
My sentiments exactly. My condolences to you, CurlyQ.
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I'm very sorry about your mom...
Wish there was something that I could say to help you. But I know comfort is kind of hard to grasp onto right now.

Try not to let small-minded people upset you. You have enough on your plate to be bothered by such nonsense. And that's exactly what their words are... nonsense.

Put it out of your mind.

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I am so sorry about your mom.

And what a jerk that ex is...there's a reason he's your ex.
Exactly. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...
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