CurlyQ, I don't post over there so I know nothing of your post count, I am just surprised after how upset you were about their attitude when your Mom died that you would go back and post there again. It seems to me to be a no brainer to stop subjecting yourself to that.
As for why do "we" women do things to ourselves that we know are hurtful? I don't.
Democracy is not a spectator sport.
You know why pandas are endangered? Cause pandas ain't got no game.
Are YOU the OP in that thread?!? Good lord, big shock you got railed on.
Why on earth do you post things like that, and in that forum? You sound like the kind of person who needs a LiveJournal or whatever it is the kids are using these days. You don't want to talk about things, you want an audience. A forum isn't the place for that.
"And politically correct is the worst term, not just because it’s dismissive, but because it narrows down the whole social justice spectrum to this idea that it’s about being polite instead of about dismantling the oppressive social structure of power.
Fun Fact: When you actively avoid being “PC,” you’re not being forward-thinking or unique. You’re buying into systems of oppression that have existed since before you were even born, and you’re keeping those systems in place." Stolen.
Yeah, you need to stop posting over there - it really seems you're over it. Now you need to let it go and walk away. It can be done. I haven't posted there in a couple years and frankly, I don't miss it.
Good lord. First you start a really sexually provocative post on FFT. Then you come here boo-hooing about how the mean icky boys were mean and icky to you?
1) If you don't want to be abused and ragged on, don't post on FFT
2) Those of us that care about what goes on over there are also members over there and don't need any links. Those of us that don't care also don't need any links. Don't bring that crap here.
To Trenell, MizKerri and geeky:
I pray none of you ever has to live in a communist state.
Geeky is my hero. She's the true badass. The badass who doesn't even need to be a badass. There aren't enough O's in cool to describe her.