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Old 04-14-2009, 09:54 AM   #1
 
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a compassionate female on a wonderful message board .. and not the opposite ?

read post # 56 on page 2, here :
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Old 04-14-2009, 09:56 AM   #2
 
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So why do you post there?
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Old 04-14-2009, 10:00 AM   #3
 
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So why do you post there?

why do we women do any of the hurtful things we do to ourselves ?

less than 1800 posts in 6 years isn't a regular
plus
my old boyfriend posts there
and so did my spouse before he passed

i doubt that i go back
for obvious reasons, though
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What the hell? I don't care what goes on on other bulletin boards. Especially "fantasy football" boards. What do you expect from fantasy football fans anyway?
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Old 04-14-2009, 10:17 AM   #5
 
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ITA with RCW about posting links from that forum.

CurlyQ, I don't post over there so I know nothing of your post count, I am just surprised after how upset you were about their attitude when your Mom died that you would go back and post there again. It seems to me to be a no brainer to stop subjecting yourself to that.

As for why do "we" women do things to ourselves that we know are hurtful? I don't.
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Old 04-14-2009, 10:39 AM   #6
 
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Are YOU the OP in that thread?!? Good lord, big shock you got railed on.

Why on earth do you post things like that, and in that forum? You sound like the kind of person who needs a LiveJournal or whatever it is the kids are using these days. You don't want to talk about things, you want an audience. A forum isn't the place for that.
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Old 04-14-2009, 11:03 AM   #7
 
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Oh hell no! You started that thread then you come in here talking about how they aren't compassionate?? Give me a break.
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Old 04-14-2009, 11:14 AM   #8
 
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Yeah, you need to stop posting over there - it really seems you're over it. Now you need to let it go and walk away. It can be done. I haven't posted there in a couple years and frankly, I don't miss it.
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Old 04-14-2009, 12:18 PM   #9
 
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Good lord. First you start a really sexually provocative post on FFT. Then you come here boo-hooing about how the mean icky boys were mean and icky to you?

Two tips
1) If you don't want to be abused and ragged on, don't post on FFT
2) Those of us that care about what goes on over there are also members over there and don't need any links. Those of us that don't care also don't need any links. Don't bring that crap here.
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Old 04-14-2009, 12:37 PM   #10
 
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i have a question

why do you write like that
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it's really quite
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Old 04-14-2009, 12:39 PM   #11
 
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Don't bring that crap here.
'Nuf said. Thnis is the 2nd time in a week someone has linked us some mess from FFT. Who cares what those assclowns think, post or feel?

It's juvenile to cross threads from other boards.

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Old 04-14-2009, 12:41 PM   #12
 
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I am sorry about your mom. Perhaps you are expressing your grief at her loss in non-productive ways (by seeking negative attention on message boards). Is there anyone supportive IRL you can talk to?
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Old 04-14-2009, 12:44 PM   #13
 
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I am sorry about your mom. Perhaps you are expressing your grief at her loss in non-productive ways (by seeking negative attention on message boards). Is there anyone supportive IRL you can talk to?
I agree with this. RL friends could be mighty helpful right now.
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Old 04-14-2009, 12:54 PM   #14
 
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I am sorry about your mom. Perhaps you are expressing your grief at her loss in non-productive ways (by seeking negative attention on message boards). Is there anyone supportive IRL you can talk to?
ITA with Geeky.

I'm not sure what kind of reaction it is that you're looking for from us. We're sorry you lost your mom. We're sorry that you're hurting.

But it is really inappropriate for you to cross-post that thread here. I'm saying this out of true concern for you; please stop victimizing yourself.
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Old 04-14-2009, 03:00 PM   #15
 
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i will apologize to those who were offended
or gave tart replies
also to those who didn't want 'that crap' here
i truly am sorry
i lurk here much more than i post
i just wasn't aware of the protocol

also, i did not announce my mother's passing in that sexual provacative thread .. that thread was started long long ago
i didn't announce it there at all
someone else did

when i mentioned this last week in a thread here, someone wondered who would make such a hateful, hurtful remark
what i did in this thread was show who and exactly what they said

to those who were kind and gentle and understanding - thank you

i won't cause any more fuss here
i promise

p.s. and to whomever did not like my writing style - some do / some don't
it's just my way of pronouncing myself
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Old 04-14-2009, 03:11 PM   #16
 
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lol, that was kinda funny..i didnt read the OP at first, but yea..haha
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Old 04-14-2009, 03:13 PM   #17
 
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The problem with engaging in attention-seeking behavior is that you don't get to pick and choose what kind of attention you'll get.
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Don't bring that crap here.
'Nuf said. Thnis is the 2nd time in a week someone has linked us some mess from FFT. Who cares what those assclowns think, post or feel?

It's juvenile to cross threads from other boards.


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Old 04-14-2009, 03:44 PM   #19
 
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they tend to drive even the most roll with it women away.
to be honest, i thought you were an alias.
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Old 04-14-2009, 03:47 PM   #20
 
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ITA with much that's all ready been said, but wanted to reiterate: stop bringing that crap here.
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