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Old 06-26-2006, 02:36 PM   #21
 
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MEG!!!!!!! Where is your pic of Dwayne Wade?
I love reading your posts just to get a piece of eye candy!
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MEG!!!!!!! Where is your pic of Dwayne Wade?
I love reading your posts just to get a piece of eye candy!
Girl...go to my myspace.com page. PLENTY there for ya! Ask babywavy!!
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Yes I do.
MEG!!!!!!! Where is your pic of Dwayne Wade?
I love reading your posts just to get a piece of eye candy!
Girl...go to my myspace.com page. PLENTY there for ya! Ask babywavy!!
I'm going over there to check it out..............
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Old 06-26-2006, 03:42 PM   #24
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Yes I do.
MEG!!!!!!! Where is your pic of Dwayne Wade?
I love reading your posts just to get a piece of eye candy!
Girl...go to my myspace.com page. PLENTY there for ya! Ask babywavy!!
I'm going over there to check it out..............
THANK U MEG!!!!!!!! I love those pics. Where did you find them? I have not seen any of thise shots of him before. OMG, you made my week!! You have one that is my favorite - him in the white undershirt and kahaki or green shirt over it with the matching hat snd the silver chain
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Yes I do.
MEG!!!!!!! Where is your pic of Dwayne Wade?
I love reading your posts just to get a piece of eye candy!
Girl...go to my myspace.com page. PLENTY there for ya! Ask babywavy!!
I'm going over there to check it out..............
THANK U MEG!!!!!!!! I love those pics. Where did you find them? I have not seen any of thise shots of him before. OMG, you made my week!! You have one that is my favorite - him in the white undershirt and kahaki or green shirt over it with the matching hat snd the silver chain
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MEG!!!!!!! Where is your pic of Dwayne Wade?
I love reading your posts just to get a piece of eye candy!
Girl...go to my myspace.com page. PLENTY there for ya! Ask babywavy!!
I'm going over there to check it out..............
THANK U MEG!!!!!!!! I love those pics. Where did you find them? I have not seen any of thise shots of him before. OMG, you made my week!! You have one that is my favorite - him in the white undershirt and kahaki or green shirt over it with the matching hat snd the silver chain
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Old 06-26-2006, 04:11 PM   #28
 
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I do, it's been going on for almost two years. I had just come out of a serious relationship and wasn't up to being involved with anyone, but still wanted sex. He was just starting to really take off in his carrer and didn't/doesn't have time to be a "good" boyfriend/partner.

It works for us, and we both know things will never go any farther. We're great friends and have even met the people the other was seeing and can be objective about it.

It's not something I talk about, only one friend really knows about him and I like it that way. It's like my own secret little world that I can escape to when I want
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im developing a harem.
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Old 06-26-2006, 04:27 PM   #30
 
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I do, it's been going on for almost two years. I had just come out of a serious relationship and wasn't up to being involved with anyone, but still wanted sex. He was just starting to really take off in his carrer and didn't/doesn't have time to be a "good" boyfriend/partner.

It works for us, and we both know things will never go any farther. We're great friends and have even met the people the other was seeing and can be objective about it.

It's not something I talk about, only one friend really knows about him and I like it that way. It's like my own secret little world that I can escape to when I want
Wow, that is a really long time to have sex with someone and not get attached to them.
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Old 06-26-2006, 04:46 PM   #31
 
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I do, it's been going on for almost two years. I had just come out of a serious relationship and wasn't up to being involved with anyone, but still wanted sex. He was just starting to really take off in his carrer and didn't/doesn't have time to be a "good" boyfriend/partner.

It works for us, and we both know things will never go any farther. We're great friends and have even met the people the other was seeing and can be objective about it.

It's not something I talk about, only one friend really knows about him and I like it that way. It's like my own secret little world that I can escape to when I want
If it goes on for that long, to me, it IS a relationship...just one that doesn't fit the standards of what people would normally CALL a relationship.
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Old 06-27-2006, 12:09 PM   #32
 
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This is the kind of thing I WOULD ask in real life!

No, I don't. Emotionally, I just don't work that way. It'd be nice if I did...but, alas, no.
Same here. Just can't separate the emotion from sex or sex from emotion.
Its hard, and this is where a lot of women end up in a lot of stress and hurt. Sex and love/caring arenít the same. Quicker you (general you) learn to separate the two, the better of you are emotionally.
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I am not sure if I understand this question?
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Its hard, and this is where a lot of women end up in a lot of stress and hurt. Sex and love/caring arenít the same. Quicker you (general you) learn to separate the two, the better of you are emotionally.
Definitely true in some cases, but in other cases it's fine to not separate the two IF the person abstains from sex until the love/caring/emotion are present. It's when people have sex hoping to get love/caring/emotion that it becomes a problem.
ITA.

For me they are the same thing, so I don't have sex with people I don't care about. I have (once) and I didn't enjoy it. I'm okay with that.
I agree with Pixie curl, -----Po, just to clarify, to not be in love with someone does not necessarily mean that you donít care about them at all. I'm sure we all know there are varying degrees of emotional attachment.
As for my situation, we were friends as I said, and we do care about each other. I would never be with someone I felt absolutely nothing for. Thats cold.
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Old 06-27-2006, 12:56 PM   #34
 
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I have to agree with Sakkeh on this one. You can still care about a person and not be in love with them or in a serious relationship.
...I think the type of relationship for a booty call involves a friend that you care about but don't want to be seriously comitted or a "friend with benefits".
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Its hard, and this is where a lot of women end up in a lot of stress and hurt. Sex and love/caring arenít the same. Quicker you (general you) learn to separate the two, the better of you are emotionally.
Why?

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I am not sure if I understand this question?
I think other posters were a lot clearer than I was.

My point was basically, why do you have to learn to separate the two to be better off emotionally?

I think it's all about accepting your own personal makeup, and if you can't separate the two, accept that and don't behave as if you can. But if you can....have fun!

I think rather than try to lie to yourself and convince yourself you can separate the two if you can't, you should just behave in such a way that you're not in a situation where the two are supposed to be separate.
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I haven't but there were a couple of friends whose personality would have been very good for this.
This is about me, isn't it?
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BTW - married now, but I did indeed have booty call friends.
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I haven't but there were a couple of friends whose personality would have been very good for this.
This is about me, isn't it?
Stop teasin'...you wouldn't have given me the time of day. I would have been way too choir boy for you.
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I haven't but there were a couple of friends whose personality would have been very good for this.
This is about me, isn't it?
Stop teasin'...you wouldn't have given me the time of day. I would have been way too choir boy for you.
I married a choir boy!

Actually I really did like nice boys...some of them rather frequently, :P
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