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Old 10-07-2009, 10:33 PM   #61
 
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Please be careful of what you read. That website is so blasphemous it angered me. It took so many Scriptures out of context. ANY TYPE, OF SEXUAL ACTION THAT CAUSES ANY SEXUAL PLEASURE BEFORE MARRIAGE (FORNICATION) IS WRONG!!!! Plain and simple.


LOL...Fornication? Where have I heard that before? Oh yeah...Uhura. Back again, I see.
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Old 10-07-2009, 10:46 PM   #62
 
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usually i don't bite but CMON ALREADY!!!!!!!!! lolol
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Old 10-07-2009, 10:56 PM   #63
 
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Please be careful of what you read. That website is so blasphemous it angered me. It took so many Scriptures out of context. ANY TYPE, OF SEXUAL ACTION THAT CAUSES ANY SEXUAL PLEASURE BEFORE MARRIAGE (FORNICATION) IS WRONG!!!! Plain and simple.
Those are your personal feelings. If we're going to talk about scriptures, what about Matthew 7:1-5 & John 8:1-11 and Romans 14:4. According to the Bible the only one able to judge anyone's actions is God. You may see sex before marriage as a sin but that is not for you to judge. AND no one's "worth" is based on the status of their hymen.
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Old 10-07-2009, 11:02 PM   #64
 
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amanda you're giving her too much. she said ANY sexual action that causes sexual pleasure before marriage.

daggone trolls.
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amanda you're giving her too much. she said ANY sexual action that causes sexual pleasure before marriage.

daggone trolls.
Oh yeah, I forgot, LOL. Gotta love the trolls, they are a constant fixture!
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Old 10-07-2009, 11:08 PM   #66
 
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amanda you're giving her too much. she said ANY sexual action that causes sexual pleasure before marriage.

daggone trolls.
Oh yeah, I forgot, LOL. Gotta love the trolls, they are a constant fixture!
im telling ya! btw your avatar is gorgeous!
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Old 10-08-2009, 12:45 AM   #67
 
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Please be careful of what you read. That website is so blasphemous it angered me. It took so many Scriptures out of context. ANY TYPE, OF SEXUAL ACTION THAT CAUSES ANY SEXUAL PLEASURE BEFORE MARRIAGE (FORNICATION) IS WRONG!!!! Plain and simple.
Those are your personal feelings. If we're going to talk about scriptures, what about Matthew 7:1-5 & John 8:1-11 and Romans 14:4. According to the Bible the only one able to judge anyone's actions is God. You may see sex before marriage as a sin but that is not for you to judge. AND no one's "worth" is based on the status of their hymen.
I understand where you're coming from but this poster is not saying "because I said so." It's implied in what she's saying that 'to God'...it's wrong. Personally I don't think the drift of the wording is the best. Lust over someone or the idea of someone you shouldn't be looking at in that light is wrong according to scriptures. That, which she'd probably agree with, is a report, not a message originating with her.

The approach is probably just going to have a negative effect because it'll sound like constricting people is the goal. When you leave off the 'why' of things and just harp on what (the 'this' or 'that' of what not to do), it's going to be taken that way. Controlling, not caring. If someone tells me I should bow towards Mecca because x,y,z...I may really disagree with them, but if their motivation in saying it is thinking it's good for me to observe, it won't cause me offense. They're not out to ruin my fun but (imo mistakenly) think I'm doing myself a disservice by not paying that homage. That's their driving motivation.

Judge not lest ye be judged doesn't mean you can't express recognition of morality according to God. It means don't be a hypocrite. To me it also eludes that if you do something AND are being a hypocrite in the process, there's more weight to that than if you did just did whatever it was. There's a difference between discriminating (in the sense of exercisingdiscrestion/sharing discrestion) and judgment. Judgement in the sense being spoken to means condemning (actually casting stones, authorizing yourself to exact judgment, like the passage in John).

I don't think she's saying she's the judge. She could have simply quoted the bible along the lines of what she was saying (the drift would be a little different). . You likewise used discrestion in your response back to her, it just was developed (which helps).
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Please be careful of what you read. That website is so blasphemous it angered me. It took so many Scriptures out of context. ANY TYPE, OF SEXUAL ACTION THAT CAUSES ANY SEXUAL PLEASURE BEFORE MARRIAGE (FORNICATION) IS WRONG!!!! Plain and simple.


LOL...Fornication? Where have I heard that before? Oh yeah...Uhura. Back again, I see.
I love the separate Soap Opera world that the trolls inhabit on NC.com. This time on "As the Hair Curls," a mysterious stranger comes to town and stirs up old troubles - but is it really a stranger after all, or just So-and-So with plastic surgery and a new contract? Stay tuned!
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