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Old 10-06-2009, 10:41 AM   #1
 
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www.sexinchrist.com
this website has a page on anal sex, saying that woman should engage in anal sex to keep there virginity and that the bible allows this sexual act before marriage.
there was a discussion about this on a yahoo forum
and some people said the scripts were being read wrong and this is not correct and someone also said that they recomend this to young girls to perserve the virginity until marriage

i think its sexism/abuse against woman.i see it as a sexual act that pleases the man not the woman,and i thinks its sick anyone would recomend this to young girls. i dont see it as purity either.
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HAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!! greatest laugh of the day but some people really do believe that.

this website is something that someone up made for...special reasons but IT'S NOT REAL.

some people think masturbation is a sin which makes me go how? but whatever.
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i think its sexism/abuse against woman.i see it as a sexual act that pleases the man not the woman,and i thinks its sick anyone would recomend this to young girls. i dont see it as purity either.
Yeah, that's really lame.

It's too bad that a religious upbringing often doesn't exactly reinforce and strengthen critical thinking abilities. That's what leads to this sort of nonsense.

That said, there are women who like anal sex.
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HAHAHAHHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!! greatest laugh of the day but some people really do believe that.

this website is something that someone up made for...special reasons but IT'S NOT REAL.

some people think masturbation is a sin which makes me go how? but whatever.
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That's the funniest website I've seen in a while. LOL
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that site is just all kinds of wrong.
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Of course, there is little, if any adult entertainment currently on the market that reflects these values and would be a good choice for Christians. That leads us to call for a new kind of porn porn that upholds the Christian ethos. Christ-centered porn, made to be viewed by Christians and tailored to their unique needs. We challenge Christians in the adult industry (yes, they do exist and you know who you are) to step up and truly walk their walk and live their faith by producing pornography that men and women of God can view without compromising their relationship with their Savior, or their relationship with their spouse.
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carribbeanheat, honestly that site is no different than any of the porn you can find on the internet. only this one doesn't have pictures.

to reiterate there are lots of WOMEN who will only have anal sex, not vaginally because they want to stay "virgins" so that was nothing new for my ears.


poodlehead hahahahaha!!!!! i had someone say to me they didn't want to masturbate because it was a sin and i just kept my thoughts to myself.

wanted to say God put a clitoris with nerve endings there so you can have an orgasm FOR A REASON.
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I went to a Catholic high school. Yes. The idiot teenagers TRULY believed having anal sex was still "preserving virginity." I'm serious.

"Well, we didn't actually have SEX!" was the common phrase. Or "It didn't count because it was anal."

I got tired of arguing with my classmates. Anal sex still has SEX attached to the end of it! Oral sex still has SEX attached to the end of it! Therefore, using LOGIC, anal and oral is still SEX!!! No dice, sister, it "counts."

Now I'm not religious by any means--if you wanna have sex, have sex! In fact, I LOVE having sex! And as a teenager I had a lot of it...but you shouldn't have to LIE about it out of fear of "impurity!"

Sexuality is important to what makes us all human beings. There's nothing wrong with sex. A healthy sex life is a GOOD thing, not something to be ashamed of. I also told this to my classmates and they insisted that just "saying a few hail Mary's" would fix their problem instead.

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There was a study a couple years ago that showed that christian teenagers, particularly those who took a "chastity vow" or "virginity pledge", were something like 5 times more likely to engage in anal sex than non-christian-non-pledgers. And very few of them use condoms to do it either. Seems like christian churches are risking their children to death, in the pursuit of keeping them vaginal virgins.
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some people think masturbation is a sin which makes me go how? but whatever.

Biblically, it's only sinful for men to masturbate. The bible doesn't care one bit about female masturbation. Doesn't even mention it. So...enjoy.
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personally, i was never told this, but i knew TONS of girls who believe this. in my head im like, where did you hear this from?! i was really curious to know the source of this information. penetration is pentration! but whatever. i dont try to knock anyones hustle.
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oh good lord... just when I think I heard it all something else comes up and smacks me in the face, lol!


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I went to a Catholic high school. Yes. The idiot teenagers TRULY believed having anal sex was still "preserving virginity." I'm serious.

"Well, we didn't actually have SEX!" was the common phrase. Or "It didn't count because it was anal."

I got tired of arguing with my classmates. Anal sex still has SEX attached to the end of it! Oral sex still has SEX attached to the end of it! Therefore, using LOGIC, anal and oral is still SEX!!! No dice, sister, it "counts."
AMEN! I agree....

I think anal sex opens the door to false beliefs - if a young girl believes anal sex isn't sex, she will be more willing to have it, oh and hey you can't get pregnant that way.... Oh man, so much on my brain with this topic I can't talk about it as my thoughts will come out all jumbled and make no sense...
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Old 10-06-2009, 11:15 AM   #14
 
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i think sometimes religion is an ignorance.
and have you noticed when it comes to sex and religion they tend to be in more favor of the man
example-
before the church allowed only the missionary position (man on top of woman) as the only sexual position allowed,so woman on top of man wasn't allowd, that has changed now with time.

the church originally says (even though its sometimes denied)that if a woman gets raped , the woman is seen more guilty than the man rapist since she provoked the inocent man and brought out the bad in him. usually churches take that out but originally the bible says that.

and woman are always taught to save there virginity FOR A MAN but a man is never enforced to save his virginity to a woman but the bible says both men and woman to save the virginity until marriage but culturally woman are more suspected to do it than men

the bible or any religous book q'ran ect was written by man not god
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Of course, there is little, if any adult entertainment currently on the market that reflects these values and would be a good choice for Christians. That leads us to call for a new kind of porn porn that upholds the Christian ethos. Christ-centered porn, made to be viewed by Christians and tailored to their unique needs. We challenge Christians in the adult industry (yes, they do exist and you know who you are) to step up and truly walk their walk and live their faith by producing pornography that men and women of God can view without compromising their relationship with their Savior, or their relationship with their spouse.
i would name the company "Porn Again Christians" Production.
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i think sometimes religion is an ignorance.

Sometimes? LOL Try...All.The.Time.

The Big-Three religions (christianity, islam, judaism) have always been about female oppression. Women will never truly be equal to men in power and influence in this world unless/until they get out from under the yoke of religious oppression.
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i've already heard of girls having anal sex to perserve there virginity but i never knew girl like that
when i was in my early teens it was very common for girls to engage in oral sex but anal sex never was common.
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personally, i was never told this, but i knew TONS of girls who believe this. in my head im like, where did you hear this from?! i was really curious to know the source of this information. penetration is pentration! but whatever. i dont try to knock anyones hustle.
Exactly.
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i think its sexism/abuse against woman.i see it as a sexual act that pleases the man not the woman,and i thinks its sick anyone would recomend this to young girls. i dont see it as purity either.
^^^ This all the way. Unless the girl *honestly* does like it. But wow. Sounds like men using the bible to oppress women and satisfy their desires. Screw men. ):<
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the church originally says (even though its sometimes denied)that if a woman gets raped , the woman is seen more guilty than the man rapist since she provoked the inocent man and brought out the bad in him. usually churches take that out but originally the bible says that.
Where does it say that?

Im not arguing against or anything just curious- Ive never heard anyone say this before.
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