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View Poll Results: Whats the best way for you (a woman) to acheive an orgasm
through intercourse? 18 20.45%
through oral sex? 11 12.50%
through masturbation? 16 18.18%
oral and masturbation? 25 28.41%
all of the above? 18 20.45%
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Old 09-12-2006, 07:23 PM   #21
 
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And having a penis inside me is distracting when I'm trying to have an orgasm.
OMG mandy I laughed so hard I cried when I read this
Thanks. It is weird, isn't it? Can't explain it. It's only when he stops and is totally still that I feel the beginnings of contractions and maybe a tiny orgasm. I'm weird!
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Pixie, I think you've given me something to try.
Hayseedlady, you are having way more fun than I am.

Since we're all sharing,

I can orgasm from intercourse, although not all the time. Mainly if I'm already really aroused. Also, my boyfriend is good with his hands... if you know what I mean.
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Old 09-12-2006, 07:35 PM   #23
 
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Pixie, I think you've given me something to try.
It's fun! Hubby and I call it "bobsled." And it's nice because, since your heads are right beside each other, you can turn your heads and kiss if you want.
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If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down.
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If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down.
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And having a penis inside me is distracting when I'm trying to have an orgasm.
BWAHAHAHAHAHAAA!!! Damn straight!

Kegels are awesome for strengthening the pelvic floor muscles and they can be pretty great when you practice them *during* sex.
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It doesn't matter what's going on with my body if my head's not into it.
Or his! *rimshot*

LOL! I didn't even catch that...and I have a dirty mind.
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Old 09-12-2006, 08:07 PM   #28
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I wasn't going to reply since I don't feel well but screw it.

Yea intercourse orgasms are nice I thought the number would be higher since the group I hang around with all have orgasms contests to see who can have the most. We're all hussies. I couldn't tell you which position works the best, since I don't really pay attention to anything except the sensations flowing through my body. I think women put way to much thought into this which means they are blocking something important out. If I had to think about it I don't think I could &%$@#!; my advice is lots of foreplay, mental is what really turns me on I love getting nasty kinky text messages from my spare partner telling me what he is going to do to me, the act of preparing myself for some great sex is a turn on and by the time he comes over for lunch I'm about to jump out of my skin. He teases me forever until I'm begging for penetration, so the first orgasm usually hits me with his first stroke. I usually end up on bottom because the guys like to watch me.

Then again I'm a freak who loves sex, I enjoy exploring my sexuality and broading my orgasm range. I've learned to enjoy things that I hated before just because I brought another partner into my life. I've also learned men are simple creatures to please, I'm the one both guys worry about pleasing. If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down. Yes experienced guys know when you are faking, it's all about letting yourself go and letting it happen.

I know way to much info. I'm not trying to top (hee) anyone.
Your "spare" partner? Sounds intriguing.
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I can orgasm through intercourse, but it's pretty rare. Oral and manual stimulation are a guarantee for me though, so we always manage to incorporate either/or/both into the activities. I don't care HOW I get there, as long as I get there. He's usually very nice and waits for me to get there before he gets there, and it helps if he goes slow and gentle while I'm building up to my climax before he goes all out.
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And having a penis inside me is distracting when I'm trying to have an orgasm.
That is so me. I've tried stimulating my clitoris during intercourse and for some reason it just isn't the same.

The guy I've been seeing is, like, shocked that I can't come during intercourse. I bet he's been with a lot of fakers.
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If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down.
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OMG LOL!!!!

Top position, relaxed mindset (a drink sometimes helps beforehand), lots of hot foreplay...whatever it may be. That's the only way for me.
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Old 09-13-2006, 07:16 AM   #32
 
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For me, age had something to do with it. I started having them when I was in my late twenties, and it has gotten progressively easier as the years go on ( I am 36 now).

But, yeah, I can have one during intercourse pretty easily.
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Old 09-13-2006, 07:33 AM   #33
 
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are you talking clitoral or vaginal orgasms?

i have never had a vaginal orgasm. i've only had clitoral ones.

i love receiving oral sex, but seldom climax that way. i climax easily with direct clitoral stimulation during masturbation and through intercourse where i'm positioned in such a way that my husband's pubic area is rubbing me there with just the right rhythm.

i can have an orgasm this way whether i'm on the bottom or top. but not from the back or sides.

sorry, but you already put the graphic disclaimer up!
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I wasn't going to reply since I don't feel well but screw it.

Yea intercourse orgasms are nice I thought the number would be higher since the group I hang around with all have orgasms contests to see who can have the most. We're all hussies. I couldn't tell you which position works the best, since I don't really pay attention to anything except the sensations flowing through my body. I think women put way to much thought into this which means they are blocking something important out. If I had to think about it I don't think I could &%$@#!; my advice is lots of foreplay, mental is what really turns me on I love getting nasty kinky text messages from my spare partner telling me what he is going to do to me, the act of preparing myself for some great sex is a turn on and by the time he comes over for lunch I'm about to jump out of my skin. He teases me forever until I'm begging for penetration, so the first orgasm usually hits me with his first stroke. I usually end up on bottom because the guys like to watch me.

Then again I'm a freak who loves sex, I enjoy exploring my sexuality and broading my orgasm range. I've learned to enjoy things that I hated before just because I brought another partner into my life. I've also learned men are simple creatures to please, I'm the one both guys worry about pleasing. If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down. Yes experienced guys know when you are faking, it's all about letting yourself go and letting it happen.

I know way to much info. I'm not trying to top (hee) anyone.
WOW! I thought I was a freak! I'm seasame street hour compared to you and your friends!
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I wasn't going to reply since I don't feel well but screw it.

Yea intercourse orgasms are nice I thought the number would be higher since the group I hang around with all have orgasms contests to see who can have the most. We're all hussies. I couldn't tell you which position works the best, since I don't really pay attention to anything except the sensations flowing through my body. I think women put way to much thought into this which means they are blocking something important out. If I had to think about it I don't think I could &%$@#!; my advice is lots of foreplay, mental is what really turns me on I love getting nasty kinky text messages from my spare partner telling me what he is going to do to me, the act of preparing myself for some great sex is a turn on and by the time he comes over for lunch I'm about to jump out of my skin. He teases me forever until I'm begging for penetration, so the first orgasm usually hits me with his first stroke. I usually end up on bottom because the guys like to watch me.

Then again I'm a freak who loves sex, I enjoy exploring my sexuality and broading my orgasm range. I've learned to enjoy things that I hated before just because I brought another partner into my life. I've also learned men are simple creatures to please, I'm the one both guys worry about pleasing. If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down. Yes experienced guys know when you are faking, it's all about letting yourself go and letting it happen.

I know way to much info. I'm not trying to top (hee) anyone.
I hadn't read this. Check out the bolded parts. If you love sex, if you are uninhibited about your body and your desires and you have no negative feelings toward the act, then its all good. Let loose and enjoy and you'll be poppin' in no time.

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15-20 orgasms in one encounter?

dayum! can you walk afterward?

as salt n pepa said, "knocks me out with one shot for the rest of the night."

my husband and i usually climax together or within seconds of each other. and i roll over and go to sleep. an orgasm is a natural sleep aid for me.

i've never experienced multiple orgasms. don't know what that would feel like. one right after the other? anyway, the only time i've ever had more than one orgasm in one encounter is when we had a repeat performance closely following the first one.

but in all honesty, my second orgasms aren't as intense at the first when we do it too soon after the first time.
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Reading this post makes me mad that I can't see my bf until next week :x
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I wasn't going to reply since I don't feel well but screw it.

Yea intercourse orgasms are nice I thought the number would be higher since the group I hang around with all have orgasms contests to see who can have the most. We're all hussies. I couldn't tell you which position works the best, since I don't really pay attention to anything except the sensations flowing through my body. I think women put way to much thought into this which means they are blocking something important out. If I had to think about it I don't think I could &%$@#!; my advice is lots of foreplay, mental is what really turns me on I love getting nasty kinky text messages from my spare partner telling me what he is going to do to me, the act of preparing myself for some great sex is a turn on and by the time he comes over for lunch I'm about to jump out of my skin. He teases me forever until I'm begging for penetration, so the first orgasm usually hits me with his first stroke. I usually end up on bottom because the guys like to watch me.

Then again I'm a freak who loves sex, I enjoy exploring my sexuality and broading my orgasm range. I've learned to enjoy things that I hated before just because I brought another partner into my life. I've also learned men are simple creatures to please, I'm the one both guys worry about pleasing. If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down. Yes experienced guys know when you are faking, it's all about letting yourself go and letting it happen.

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I didn't vote, because I didn't see the option that works for me. I need a combination of "north" and "south" action.

I was SO not going to post on this thread!
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poodle,

you're a super freak!
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