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View Poll Results: Whats the best way for you (a woman) to acheive an orgasm
through intercourse? 18 20.45%
through oral sex? 11 12.50%
through masturbation? 16 18.18%
oral and masturbation? 25 28.41%
all of the above? 18 20.45%
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Old 09-13-2006, 09:52 AM   #41
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Old 09-13-2006, 09:52 AM   #42
 
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Old 09-13-2006, 10:39 AM   #43
 
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Interesting...my fiance is the only one that has ever made me orgasm with oral sex, but mostly because he is also stimulating my g-spot at the same time.
I need both stimulations to orgasm most of the time, but if it has been a long time and I'm really ready, it can happen with just clitoral stimulation - that's also not that satisfying for me.

I'm shocked that many of you can't orgasm from sex, but only from oral (since I'm the opposite). Like Pixie, I like to lean forward while on top, or I like to have him sitting up while I'm on top and it seems to work too.
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Old 09-13-2006, 10:43 AM   #44
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Old 09-13-2006, 10:44 AM   #45
 
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Munchy, you just described what I was going to say very nicely. I am the exact same way. The last position you described is what my BF and I like to call beast with 2 backs.
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If I don't have atleast 15-20 orgasms they feel so let down.
This is why, unless I'm in a relationship with someone willing to take the time, sex just isn't worth it. Because I can do so much better on my own. Most guys feel like if they can give one orgasm, they've achieved something. To that I say: meh. Give me 20 and then we'll have something to talk about.

I average 30 when I go it alone. And yes, they vary in quality, but the first one isn't usually the best one. The "best" falls in the middle somewhere. They're all very different.

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She has made it clear to me that it is not important to her that she orgasm every time we have sex. She knows what she needs, and we have little key words to communicate those needs. That way I know what she is looking for before we start.
But she still has an orgasm through other means, every time you get sexual, right? Otherwise, that's just sad.

And to answer the OP, I have yet to orgasm during intercourse, but I haven't had that many good partners, sadly. [This is not a cattle call for offers, so save it! ]

I have a theory that if fewer men were circumcised, this would be a non-issue. They would last longer and there would be more lubrication. Anyone know anything about this, perhaps from personal experience?
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Old 09-13-2006, 11:17 AM   #47
 
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I do orgasm regularly during intercourse, but ONLY IF I already had one during foreplay.
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Old 09-13-2006, 11:40 AM   #48
 
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I'm shocked that many of you can't orgasm from sex, but only from oral


I'm going to disagree with our ex president and most college students...oral sex is still SEX!

Who cares how someone orgasms...it's still an orgasm. I don't consider it a failure if I can't orgasm from intercourse. It's all still good.
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Okay, I thought I was the only one. I have only orgasmed when I'm on top, leaning forward, or in that bobsled position. I have had one in the *doggy style* position, but I was laying and put a pillow under my pelvis to elevate it. Oral sex very seldom works, only about 15% of the time. Masturbation is a sure be, but not as much fun as a two player.

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I can orgasm easiest when having intercourse, when i'm on top it usually only takes about 3 minutes to reach the first one, with him on top it can be anywhere between 2-5 minutes but then the next few i have come closer together.
Masturbating on my own i can orgasm quick too, i find it takes longest for me to orgasm when receiving oral.
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Old 09-13-2006, 12:57 PM   #51
 
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Nope, never orgasmed from intercourse alone. I need major clitoral stimulation, and it's really difficult to get it just from positioning ourselves the right way. There has to be some type of manual or oral stim. going on...

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I have a theory that if fewer men were circumcised, this would be a non-issue. They would last longer and there would be more lubrication. Anyone know anything about this, perhaps from personal experience?
No, it's not about the length of the session. If something doesn't get you off, it doesn't get you off. I mean, if someone could tug at your earlobe for hours, it still probably wouldn't make you orgasm, right? :P
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Foreplay is definitely one of the most important factors....for me at least.

If I have no foreplay, you can pretty much forget about getting me off during sex... and sometimes it ends up being way too much "work" if you know what I mean.

BUT if there's a lot of kissing, stimulation, etc beforehand, I can pretty much let go whenever!
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Old 09-13-2006, 01:58 PM   #53
 
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Pixiecurl wrote:

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You on top, facing his feet, then you lay back so that your head is right beside his (he can put a pillow beside his head for you). His chest is against your back. Not only does this position give great G-spot stimulation, but his hands are free to stimulate your breasts and clitoris as well.
Love this position. As I am leaning back he always holds my back and helps me down so I don't just fall and it's so sweet to hear him say "I've got you".
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The Pixiecurl method sounds like hard work (no pun intended).

Doesn't he slip/pop out when you're leaning back like that?
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medussa - Nope. It just works and the extra stimulation on your clitoris is very nice.
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I have never been able to get there with doggy style. And I've tried everything to try to get there with this position. I'll do it for my BF if I've already orgasmed. But it's not pleasurable for me.

Oddly enough Pixie's position is one of the best!
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Old 09-13-2006, 02:12 PM   #57
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So we've got 2 PC methods on nc.com...
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The Pixiecurl method sounds like hard work (no pun intended).

Doesn't he slip/pop out when you're leaning back like that?


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Doesn't he slip/pop out when you're leaning back like that?
Haha, sometimes that happens for us, but whatever, it's not like it won't go back in again. BTW, I've always heard the position referred to as "the scorpion."
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Old 09-13-2006, 02:31 PM   #60
 
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am i the only one feeling a little . . . moist right about now?
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