View Poll Results: Whats the best way for you (a woman) to acheive an orgasm
through intercourse? 18 20.45%
through oral sex? 11 12.50%
through masturbation? 16 18.18%
oral and masturbation? 25 28.41%
all of the above? 18 20.45%
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Orgasms (very adult, pls beware)

Doesn't he slip/pop out when you're leaning back like that?
Originally Posted by medussa
Haha, sometimes that happens for us, but whatever, it's not like it won't go back in again.
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Originally Posted by Rheanna83
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Best way for me...hand stimulation ---no inserting of fingers, just stimulation of the clitoris. I get big ones when I masturbate and when I receive oral.
Its very hard to achieve with penetration, but it does happen.
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Originally Posted by Rheanna83
perhaps they are off experimenting.
It's times like this I wish my boyfriend didn't go to school at night
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I'm never come during intercourse or oral. Masturbation is the only way for me.

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only woman like this, despite what all the stats say. It makes me sad.
zmanzzz, you could be right

CurlyJenn, my husband works 2nd shift so I know what ya mean! Hehe.

Chronicity, you're definitely not alone in that. I would try some diff. positions and lots of foreplay, as many other people have mentioned.
I'm never come during intercourse or oral. Masturbation is the only way for me.

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only woman like this, despite what all the stats say. It makes me sad.
Originally Posted by chronicity
I hear you. It takes FOREVER for me to have an orgasm when it's not me doing the work (and sometimes even then). It gets to the point where we just don't have the energy to keep trying to get me there. I get so close and then I can't get past it. He does everything I need him to, I'm relaxed and comfortable around him, but my body just isn't responding how I think it should. As far as intercourse go, I've gotten pretty close in the me-on-top-leaning-forward position. If anything's going to happen, it'll most likely be like that. And whoever said they get distracted with a penis in them, that's me too, in most positions. I can't really feel manual clitoral stimulation at all if my SO's in me. Oh well. Rarely does an encounter leave me frustrated, persay, because I enjoy it, but there's the occasional 'WHY can't I get there' dealy.
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I'm never come during intercourse or oral. Masturbation is the only way for me.

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only woman like this, despite what all the stats say. It makes me sad.

Don't be so hard on yourself. I think women put way too much pressure on themselves about orgasms. If you can only come with masturbation, then maybe try to incorporate that into your lovemaking with your partner. I'm so over the orgasm pressure thing. I long ago gave myself permission to do whatever I needed to do to reach my climax. He doesn't mind a bit.
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Originally Posted by WileECoyote - Daddy's grl






medussa - we don't really have slippage problems because my husband holds on to my hips to keep me on there as we get started.
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medussa - we don't really have slippage problems because my husband holds on to my hips to keep me on there as we get started.
Originally Posted by PixieCurl
Girl, I so thought you were going to say you don't have slippage problems because your husband is so big! LOL

I didn't expect you to have a real reason!
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I'm never come during intercourse or oral. Masturbation is the only way for me. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only woman like this, despite what all the stats say. It makes me sad.
Originally Posted by chronicity
Yeah, don't feel sad. I usually have my best orgasms thru masturbation and second best with oral and third best with his hand. Although I cannot come with a penis in me, if I can see or feel a penis with any of the above three methods, that works for me. You can by the way find many penises on craigslist "casual encounters." Lots of pictures up there.

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And having a penis inside me is distracting when I'm trying to have an orgasm.
Originally Posted by mandyv
OMG mandy I laughed so hard I cried when I read this
Originally Posted by PixieCurl
Thanks. It is weird, isn't it? Can't explain it. It's only when he stops and is totally still that I feel the beginnings of contractions and maybe a tiny orgasm. I'm weird!
Originally Posted by mandyv
Dude, I am like that too. But its not comparison to the real big one which only happens with good oral for me.
I'm never come during intercourse or oral. Masturbation is the only way for me.

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only woman like this, despite what all the stats say. It makes me sad.
Originally Posted by chronicity
I hear you. It takes FOREVER for me to have an orgasm when it's not me doing the work (and sometimes even then). It gets to the point where we just don't have the energy to keep trying to get me there.
Originally Posted by Befrizzled
Exactly!

Rarely does an encounter leave me frustrated, persay, because I enjoy it, but there's the occasional 'WHY can't I get there' dealy.
Originally Posted by Befrizzled
Again exactly!

We have been experimenting recently and I feel like I am getting closer. I will have to try Pixie's position. I think I tried that with my ex before. It sounds like it could have the potential to hurt, seems like you would have to be awfully flexible. If it means I have to have more sex to figure it out then thats just what I will have to do
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I'm never come during intercourse or oral. Masturbation is the only way for me.

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only woman like this, despite what all the stats say. It makes me sad.
Originally Posted by chronicity
I hear you. It takes FOREVER for me to have an orgasm when it's not me doing the work (and sometimes even then). It gets to the point where we just don't have the energy to keep trying to get me there.
Originally Posted by Befrizzled
Exactly!

Rarely does an encounter leave me frustrated, persay, because I enjoy it, but there's the occasional 'WHY can't I get there' dealy.
Originally Posted by Befrizzled
Again exactly!

We have been experimenting recently and I feel like I am getting closer. I will have to try Pixie's position. I think I tried that with my ex before. It sounds like it could have the potential to hurt, seems like you would have to be awfully flexible. If it means I have to have more sex to figure it out then thats just what I will have to do
Originally Posted by nik
It's actually not very uncomfortable. My knees are usually pulled up so my feet are on the bed, my toes pointing toward his head (not literally, but the general direction, instead of feet). He'll occasionally raise his knees up to support me or put his hands on my hips or the general region to keep me steady. Even though I'm on top, this is a position in which he does most of the work, which can be a workout for him, but DAMN it feels good....

ETA: You said Pixie's, not the other. Pixie's actually doesn't do a whole lot for me, but that's because I get "distracted"--for those of you that don't, it's an amazing thing to try.

And I'm glad to know I'm not the only one.
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a position that works wonders for both of us is when we are in a reverse missionary position where I'M on top.

i lie down on my husband with one of my legs between his legs. this way, i can control the rhythm and the pressure that i need to give me a really intense orgasm. also, my husband loves it when he's in this submissive position. he's a little beyotch like that sometimes!

i can't believe i just typed that.
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