This is how I feel. In my case, I was preferring a muslim bangladeshi guy. Ha, there are not even that many in the U.S. And then to find that with a similar background and culture(raised in the west and liberal), forget it. There are a lot more for the younger kids, but in my age range, not so much. I cared more for the religion than the race though. I was not looking for guys, but I know my sister and friends were and had trouble when they limited themselves to the religion only. I went outside my culture and religion and don't regret it at all. I was not looking for a guy, wanted to be single longer, but it just happened and it's been great. If I limited myself to my preferences, I would definitely be single longer. I wouldn't mind it now, but I would in 5-10 years. I know women who do limit themselves and have been looking actively since their mid 20's and remain single into their mid 30's and complain how there are no men.
I was just making a joke though about converting and marrying Jewish though. But I do stand by the first post I made about opening up and looking at other races for black women. I mean I understand that it would be nice, but if a person can't find a suitable one..what are they to do just be single forever ? I would hope not. Why should they suffer when plenty of men in other races would be glad to have them.