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I'm still feeling like an 18 year old boy most of the time. Just can't get enough. : )
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I'm still feeling like an 18 year old boy most of the time. Just can't get enough. : )
Originally Posted by jeepcurlygurl
^ thats a good way of saying it.

I'm nearing 50 and still going at it ...

Wow...how'd I miss this thread...

I'm 48 and love sex more than ever. Hubby (52) keeps up as best as he can. I'd happily do it every day, but he's more of a once-a-weeker...so we compromise...couple/few times a week. My O's changed after the birth of my last baby (10 years ago, at 3. They got...somewhat "flatter"...not as high, not quite as good. They're still OK, but I really miss the way they used to be.
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The more I ‘get it” on a regular basis the more intense my O is.


Last edited by SilverCurls; 09-22-2010 at 01:03 PM.
I've noticed lately that I need to have sex more often in order to want sex more often - and to "heat up" quickly. Does that even make sense? But really, I've found that if I go more than a four days or so without, then it's too easy to stop thinking about it. Consequently I've made a point to have it more frequently. My DH is totally on board with this!
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I've noticed lately that I need to have sex more often in order to want sex more often - and to "heat up" quickly. Does that even make sense? But really, I've found that if I go more than a four days or so without, then it's too easy to stop thinking about it. Consequently I've made a point to have it more frequently. My DH is totally on board with this!
Originally Posted by 2poodles
I'm gonna be a little TMI here, so you're warned:

I need sex often (well, I like it often, but besides that...) cause it keeps me "open" down there. Since I don't wanna do the estrogen cream (Estrace) unless I ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO (afraid of estrogen absorption issues), if I don't use it, I lose it. Literally. I tighten up like a virgin and the tissues just don't seem as nice in there, if ya get my meaning.

The more I do it, the easier it is to get lubricated, the plumper things stay in there, and the looser (loose in a good way, as in hubby CAN ACTUALLY GET IN, as opposed to, "ow owowowowo get away from me".) Menopause means I seem to just be prone to not only the moisture issues, but the stricture issues.

So, frequent (hey, I would love daily, but let's face it, life gets in the way, not to mention work/sleep/etc) is de riguer if things are gonna stay in fine working order.

And, in an interesting side benefit, it's true: the more you do it, the more you get used to it and WANTING it more often.

So, we have a new code word for sex now: therapy.

"Honey, it's time for woo woo therapy."

Hey, age takes its toll, so you fight back with a smile, right?
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Wow...how'd I miss this thread...

I'm 48 and love sex more than ever. Hubby (52) keeps up as best as he can. I'd happily do it every day, but he's more of a once-a-weeker...so we compromise...couple/few times a week. My O's changed after the birth of my last baby (10 years ago, at 3. They got...somewhat "flatter"...not as high, not quite as good. They're still OK, but I really miss the way they used to be.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
Girl. YOu really need to find your G-spot. My Os had gotten flatter, too, then experimentation with stuff in there (yeah, I was NOT easy to find) and now they are better than when I was in my 20s and those were pretty damn good.

Sometimes, I think I'm just gonna pass out. Sometimes I just start blubbering after, it's so intense.

Definitely worth taking the time and doing whatever silliness is necessary to find your spot (Hint: it's easier to find it if you have one regular O first.)
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Jeez, I wish I could tighten up like a virgin again. But alas, no. : )
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Jeez, I wish I could tighten up like a virgin again. But alas, no. : )
Originally Posted by jeepcurlygurl
There actually is surgery to that.

I have a girlfriend who remarried a guy 15 years younger and couldn't get to the point of enjoyment and she had it done.

Now they sometimes don't leave the house because they are enjoying each other ... so much!

Jeez, I wish I could tighten up like a virgin again. But alas, no. : )
Originally Posted by jeepcurlygurl
There actually is surgery to that.

I have a girlfriend who remarried a guy 15 years younger and couldn't get to the point of enjoyment and she had it done.

Now they sometimes don't leave the house because they are enjoying each other ... so much!
Originally Posted by SilverCurls
hahaha. I don't plan on getting my face or my cooter tightened.
Luckily it's still in good enough shape to provide enjoyment to me and my men.
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hahaha. I don't plan on getting my face or my cooter tightened.
Luckily it's still in good enough shape to provide enjoyment to me and my men.
: )
Originally Posted by jeepcurlygurl
I hear you on that as I'm also far from having that issue.

But not all of us are that lucky and when you marry a young hot sweet thing (as she did) you want to reap the benefits of all he has to offer.


Last edited by SilverCurls; 09-22-2010 at 03:15 PM.

Girl. YOu really need to find your G-spot.
Originally Posted by MirCurls

I've looked. I don't think I have one.

Girl. YOu really need to find your G-spot.
Originally Posted by MirCurls

I've looked. I don't think I have one.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
Probably just hiding real good.
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I think I need some eye candy in my life. I rarely think about sex anymore. I seem to be surrounded by paunchy, old, balding men. That's not a turn on for me and I've never been one to have sex with just anyone. I need to be attracted to them.

I'm with RCW. I've never found my G-spot either. At my age sex just seems like so much work.

One night a friend of mine and I were watching a soft porn together. At one point she asked me if it was doing anything for me. I told it looked like a lot of work. She agreed.
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its been on the decline the last couple of years. during my time in VN we didnt do it very much. i dont know if it was the small bed, the baby next to us, her lactating breasts, lack of sleep, etc. i was disinterested for some reason. hopefully things will change the next trip.
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I think I need some eye candy in my life. I rarely think about sex anymore. I seem to be surrounded by paunchy, old, balding men. That's not a turn on for me and I've never been one to have sex with just anyone. I need to be attracted to them.

I'm with RCW. I've never found my G-spot either. At my age sex just seems like so much work.

One night a friend of mine and I were watching a soft porn together. At one point she asked me if it was doing anything for me. I told it looked like a lot of work. She agreed.
Originally Posted by Lotsawaves
Oh but the outcome is sooooooo worth it!

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Girl. YOu really need to find your G-spot.
Originally Posted by MirCurls

I've looked. I don't think I have one.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
The G-Spot may best be looked for by yourself - then you'll know where it is to guide your sweetie along.

If you truly don't know - there are plenty of great reads that will help you explore your way...

its been on the decline the last couple of years. during my time in VN we didnt do it very much. i dont know if it was the small bed, the baby next to us, her lactating breasts, lack of sleep, etc. i was disinterested for some reason. hopefully things will change the next trip.
Originally Posted by OBB

New babies tend to do that to the lovelife.

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