When Did Your Sex Drive...


Girl. YOu really need to find your G-spot.
Originally Posted by MirCurls

I've looked. I don't think I have one.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
The G-Spot may best be looked for by yourself - then you'll know where it is to guide your sweetie along.

If you truly don't know - there are plenty of great reads that will help you explore your way...
Originally Posted by SilverCurls


I've read all about it...years ago. This is not a new concept to me. I just don't think I have such a spot. Personally, I think the whole g-spot thing is a myth...at least for me.
I think I need some eye candy in my life. I rarely think about sex anymore. I seem to be surrounded by paunchy, old, balding men. That's not a turn on for me and I've never been one to have sex with just anyone. I need to be attracted to them.

I'm with RCW. I've never found my G-spot either. At my age sex just seems like so much work.

One night a friend of mine and I were watching a soft porn together. At one point she asked me if it was doing anything for me. I told it looked like a lot of work. She agreed.
Originally Posted by Lotsawaves
Oh but the outcome is sooooooo worth it!
Originally Posted by SilverCurls
Like I said, I need some eye candy. I just can't get turned on by men my age and I don't want to be a cougar.

I'm lucky I still lubricate and I'm tight, but not too tight. I just don't want to share the goodies with some old phart.
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Like I said, I need some eye candy. I just can't get turned on by men my age and I don't want to be a cougar.

I'm lucky I still lubricate and I'm tight, but not too tight. I just don't want to share the goodies with some old phart.
I date young and old. Currently I'm dating a very hot man (hot in many good ways ) and he is 62. No, he doesn't look 25 but still good looking with plenty of stamina that can blow any youngung away.

When I was 42 - I dated a man 57 - we split because he couldn't keep it in his pants. As much as he was a jerk - he was far from being an old fart.

Mind you - no blue pills were needed for either man. Some older men do still have it going on.


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This thread is hilarious! ...Okay, putting my 2 cents in - I'm married to a guy who is 6 years younger than me. (Not sure if that makes me a cougar or not. But, we've been married longer than the term has existed.) Anyhoo... I don't know if my drive has gone through the roof yet. But, we're cruising right along just fine. LOL!

BTW - if you want to try figuring out where your G-spot is, try this:


http://www.drugstore.com/products/pr...Y-PLST-0-BRAND


You might find something you didn't know was there... lol
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This thread is hilarious! ...Okay, putting my 2 cents in - I'm married to a guy who is 6 years younger than me. (Not sure if that makes me a cougar or not. But, we've been married longer than the term has existed.) Anyhoo... I don't know if my drive has gone through the roof yet. But, we're cruising right along just fine. LOL!

BTW - if you want to try figuring out where your G-spot is, try this:


http://www.drugstore.com/products/pr...Y-PLST-0-BRAND


You might find something you didn't know was there... lol
Originally Posted by RacerWife7

When the neighbors here the screams from our bedroom, they've figured out what we found. hahahaha!

I can't remember the brand, but there was one really cute one for women to find their G-spot. It was expensive. Swedish, I think?

Shoot, I'd pay 100+ bucks if I were on a G quest. I figure it's an investment in ecstasy.

Even though we bumpsy wumps nearly every day, I just read over at Dr. Oz's site how having sex can control hunger, so being that I'm on a diet (have lost 46 lbs and have way lots more to go), I'm gonna approach hubby with my case for a ramping up of the action for the sake of my, er, fat loss. Maybe with some posters and...visual aids.

hee.
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I've looked. I don't think I have one.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
The G-Spot may best be looked for by yourself - then you'll know where it is to guide your sweetie along.

If you truly don't know - there are plenty of great reads that will help you explore your way...
Originally Posted by SilverCurls


I've read all about it...years ago. This is not a new concept to me. I just don't think I have such a spot. Personally, I think the whole g-spot thing is a myth...at least for me.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves

It may well be a myth. I'm not a researcher and I don't know. All I know is whatever it is we discovered when on the search for it...it made my orgasms seriously more intense. Maybe it's placebo, psychological, etc. Don't care.

I like the results. A lot. Like...a lot a lot.

So, whatever the cause, whatever the reality ad the myth, something is going on in there and it's really, really, really good.
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I think I need some eye candy in my life. I rarely think about sex anymore. I seem to be surrounded by paunchy, old, balding men. That's not a turn on for me and I've never been one to have sex with just anyone. I need to be attracted to them.

I'm with RCW. I've never found my G-spot either. At my age sex just seems like so much work.

One night a friend of mine and I were watching a soft porn together. At one point she asked me if it was doing anything for me. I told it looked like a lot of work. She agreed.
Originally Posted by Lotsawaves
I think if I wasn't married, I'd just be celibate and invest in a lot of toys. I honestly think that after being with the same cutiepie for 28 years, I just woudn't wanna bang it up with anyone else. I mean, you have the trust, the memories, the love, the familiarity with each other's zones, the silliness...all the good stuff...and the only bad stuff is whatever aging throws at us: we're both losing hair, we're both squidgier, we're both grayer, and neither of our private parts are in peak condition like in our youth. We can't do it five times a day like in those first 7 years or so. Body won't cooperate as much.

I still find him crazy handsome and hot, so that's not the problem. He could go bald and I think I'd still see the hot stud-boy I married. I' fat and saggy and middle-aged and I can walk naked in front of him without self-consciousness, which is one reason why sex is stress-free, too, with the hubster.

But if I were back on the dating scene, I'd worry about my fat, cellulite, sagging boobies, aging cooter, perceptions, trust, venereal diseases, etc. Nah, too much work and anxiety. I'd just take care of my own business I think, and just have male friends for...friendship and "come fix my sink".

Hubby is under orders not to die before me. I've commanded it. He can die with me or after me. I'd miss everything about him, and most definitely his adorable privates. And I just can't imagine another set comparing....yeah, I'm biased.
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Last edited by MirCurls; 10-12-2010 at 03:19 PM.
I think I need some eye candy in my life. I rarely think about sex anymore. I seem to be surrounded by paunchy, old, balding men. That's not a turn on for me and I've never been one to have sex with just anyone. I need to be attracted to them.

I'm with RCW. I've never found my G-spot either. At my age sex just seems like so much work.

One night a friend of mine and I were watching a soft porn together. At one point she asked me if it was doing anything for me. I told it looked like a lot of work. She agreed.
Originally Posted by Lotsawaves
I think if I wasn't married, I'd just be celibate and invest in a lot of toys. I honestly think that after being with the same cutiepie for 28 years, I just woudn't wanna bang it up with anyone else. I mean, you have the trust, the memories, the love, the familiarity with each other's zones, the silliness...all the good stuff...and the only bad stuff is whatever aging throws at us: we're both losing hair, we're both squidgier, we're both grayer, and neither of our private parts are in peak condition like in our youth. We can't do it five times a day like in those first 7 years or so. Body won't cooperate as much.

I still find him crazy handsome and hot, so that's not the problem. He could go bald and I think I'd still see the hot stud-boy I married. I' fat and saggy and middle-aged and I can walk naked in front of him without self-consciousness, which is one reason why sex is stress-free, too, with the hubster.

But if I were back on the dating scene, I'd worry about my fat, cellulite, sagging boobies, aging cooter, perceptions, trust, venereal diseases, etc. Nah, too much work and anxiety. I'd just take care of my own business I think, and just have male friends for...friendship and "come fix my sink".

Hubby is under orders not to die before me. I've commanded it. He can die with me or after me. I'd miss everything about him, and most definitely his adorable privates. And I just can't imagine another set comparing....yeah, I'm biased.
Originally Posted by MirCurls
Mir, you crack me up. Seriously! Love the bit about just having a guy for friendship and to fix the sink. You're a blast!
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When the neighbors here the screams from our bedroom, they've figured out what we found. hahahaha!

I can't remember the brand, but there was one really cute one for women to find their G-spot. It was expensive. Swedish, I think?

Shoot, I'd pay 100+ bucks if I were on a G quest. I figure it's an investment in ecstasy.

Even though we bumpsy wumps nearly every day, I just read over at Dr. Oz's site how having sex can control hunger, so being that I'm on a diet (have lost 46 lbs and have way lots more to go), I'm gonna approach hubby with my case for a ramping up of the action for the sake of my, er, fat loss. Maybe with some posters and...visual aids.

hee.
Originally Posted by MirCurls
...The "bumpsy wumps"... WTG losing 46# Woman!! I've lost 27 since the beginning of September and I still have quite a bit to go. ...Doesn't THAT just get your motor runnin'??? OH YEAH! LOL!
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