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Old 04-18-2010, 09:40 AM   #1
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Question When Did Your Sex Drive...

really go thru the roof?
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in your 40s...
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Old 04-18-2010, 08:38 PM   #2
 
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My sex drive went up and down over the years due to the usual suspects (stress, hormones, life in general), then in my 40's is started going up and up and now in my 50's I probably have the highest sex drive of my life.
Anyone who thinks sex ends after middle age, well I'm here to tell ya, it just ain't so! At least not for me!
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Old 04-18-2010, 09:12 PM   #3
 
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It's been steadily increasing since I was 37 or so. It was always high. I'm 40 now. It'll be interesting to see where this goes
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At 35.
I'm 44 now and it's still going strong.
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35ish. I never had much of one before and it's off & on now but getting hotter when on. I'm 39, should be an interesting ride!
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Old 04-26-2010, 04:34 PM   #7
 
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I have to say 40; coincidentally about the time i got divorced
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Old 04-26-2010, 06:06 PM   #8
 
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49...

Just over a year ago, the very month I turned 49, I returned to the "i want it every day and multiple times a day" feeling of honeymoon days. Hubby really is liking it, too. hahahahah

Something about the magic words: menopause, can't get pregnant.

When the ob-gyn said that, it was like, "Woohoo, throw out the condoms, party time!"

I still practically jump hubby the minute he gets home from work. And more often on weekends.

I hate aging's effect on my joints and skin and metabolisma and cholestrol etc, but I really like not being fertile anymore and not worrying about it was a "safe" time of the month. And perimenopause was a nightmare of hot flashes, vagiinal constriction, pain with sex, low-sex drive, massive periods, and hairs on my face. What the hell was that about?

A few months of an estrogen cream took care of the constriction, and Sliquid takes care of the rest nature and time took away. Hubby is long past the 5x a day stamina, but we do fine.

My sex drive is officially a teenager again...
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Old 04-27-2010, 05:36 AM   #9
 
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I'm so jealous of all of you. I'm stuck in that "I don't really care one way or another" rut.
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Old 04-28-2010, 04:51 PM   #10
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jeezus..what is wrong w/ me lately?
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Wile E - you're a lucky horn dog!
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Old 05-18-2010, 05:39 AM   #13
 
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Ok, just when I though I'd seen the smilies at their best...

Wile, I have to ask.

Where did you find the hump a banana smilies????
OMG that was a great laugh to look down and see that...

Oh Yeah and at 47 still going and going and going, kinda like the enegizer bunny....
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OMG LMAO ROFL and ANY other acronym that indicates pants peeing laughter!!!!!
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Banana Split
Bananas Foster
Banana Sundae
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My husband dang near fell off the sofa when I showed him this....
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I can't give away all my secrets...
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I stole it from another board...

Ok, ok...
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Scroll down to s-e-x on the left...I believe it's on the first page...

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What about your Os?
Have y'all found they have gotten better, as well?
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My sex drive went up and down over the years due to the usual suspects (stress, hormones, life in general), then in my 40's is started going up and up and now in my 50's I probably have the highest sex drive of my life.
Anyone who thinks sex ends after middle age, well I'm here to tell ya, it just ain't so! At least not for me!
I'm 49 (menopause yet to hit) and recently have been going through an extra-good phase! I hope my experience in my 50s is the same as yours.
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Yeahhhh, another reason I wanna be just like jeep!
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Old 07-22-2010, 09:20 AM   #20
 
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ROFLMAO!!! that has to be the funniest thing I have seen on the curly hair forums!

For me it increased in my late 30s may be a coincidence that it was about the same time I got divorced

I must say it does get better with age!
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