Where was all this "come together" talk when Bush won? If McCain had won, people would be lamenting for weeks and saying the same things. A lot of us are disappointed, but the majority of us will pull it together and support the president, no matter who he is. Are we not allowed to have a few days to be a little sad and disappointed?
I think it's fine you to grieve and be disappointed for a few days. I also think it's fine for us to gloat and brag for the same short period. The point is that neither of us should do it with a mean-spirited heart or with the goal of inflicting pain on the other person.