06-28-2010, 09:32 AM
Join Date: May 2007
Sending you hugs, good thoughts, and if you want it--baby dust! Trying to get pregnant can be so hard . . . I went through a lot of ups and downs and got pretty obsessive. We actually got pregnant AFTER we'd given up on trying--we were about to go in to consult with specialists and had just decided to give ourselves a break (I was 34 and husb 38 ). Of course, it's different for everyone, but i've heard from a lot of people that when they gave up 'trying' it actually seems to have helped them to conceive. Not much comfort, i know. but i'm wishing the best for you, your husband and your future.
Also, every relationship has ups and downs and phases, and i wouldn't worry about being 'too hard' on your husband on the boards. The boards are a great place to vent, to think things over and air them out.
Then we can all support you, and in that way I think it can be better than telling a family member or close friend who still has to maintain a relationship with your husband/the person in question.
Wishing you the very best.
Oh, and p.s. I love the expression 'fur baby' some people use for their pets. Of course we love those little suckers! It's a special kind of love--we're the center of their worlds and it's a major responsibility/form of stewardship. I think it's just as important as any other life relationship--maybe more so because animals don't have control over their own lives.
2b/3a, fine, "naturally frizzy", non-porous, above shoulders, brunette
Low-poos--faves are Deva and JC, experimenting with CJ Gentle Cleansing Shampoo
Conditioners: faves are Devacare One-C, Jessicurl Too Shea
Leave Ins: Conflicted relationship--no fave
Fave stylers: Aveda Flax Seed & Aloe over Aveda Phmollient mousse, KCCC over anything, Biolage Firm Hold Gelee (HG for spring/summer), CK
Last edited by kiniha; 06-28-2010 at 09:32 AM.
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