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picklesgirl 04-24-2012 01:47 PM

Due tomorrow and baby hasn't dropped
 
I'm just a little frustrated I went to the Dr today and he checked me and I was a 1 (which is good I normally don't dilate until labor) but the baby's head is still "floaty". If he would just drop we could get this show on the road

Amneris 04-24-2012 02:21 PM

I wouldn't get frustrated just yet - you're not even at your due date! Things can change quickly and a doctor can't predict that.

Like.Australia 04-24-2012 02:34 PM

I've read that second-and-later babies sometimes don't engage until labor actually begins. Don't stress -- it will happen! Nobody's pregnant forever. :)

deezee02 04-24-2012 10:56 PM

None of my babies dropped until I was in transition. And I was never dilated past 2. As a matter if fact, I was a 2 with ds2 and labor started that night.

picklesgirl 04-25-2012 05:52 PM

I'm just at the I'm ready to be done point. Today has been awful it's really hot here and I'm swelling up like a tick! I wanted to go for a walk to maybe help things along but shoes are not my friends today, infact I picked my son up from school without shoes.

RedCatWaves 04-25-2012 09:46 PM

Spend some time on your hands and knees. Washing your kitchen floor on H&K is one of the best things you can do in late pregnancy (sorry...I hate to advocate for housework, but this really is the truth). The position forces gravity to act on the heaviest part of the baby...the back...and pulls it downward and helps baby get into occiput anterior position, which encourages engagement, which encourages labor.

Most second and subsequent babies do not engage until labor is imminant, and a lot more don't engage until late in labor. But working on H&K can only help.

Good luck and best wishes for a peaceful, gentle labor and healthy and happy mom and baby.

picklesgirl 04-28-2012 08:22 PM

I am now 3 days late!! And thanks to RedCatWaves will be scrubbing floors tomorrow if I don't go into labor tonight! I have spent my day sitting on an exercise ball and walking and more walking and "spending time" with my husband :-) and drinking red raspberry leaf tea like crazy!!

ruralcurls 04-28-2012 09:15 PM

Hands and knees worked for me. Although, I didn't do housework. My midwife gave me an exercise to do because my son was causing me excruciating pain. I wasn't due for 2 more weeks, but I ended going that night, much to everyone's surprise.

Good luck.

cosmicfly 04-29-2012 05:49 AM

Hands and knees worked for me too; my last baby was 11 days "late". Try to relax, it won't be more than a couple of weeks at the most.

picklesgirl 04-29-2012 04:26 PM

Scrubbed the floor on my hands and knees so far nothing 4 days late and counting lol. I go back to the Dr on Tuesday and then he said we will talk about when to induce. He's worried about me going too far over because I have big babies. My first baby was 8lbs 2oz and my second was 9lbs 2oz. I don't want to be induced but I'm getting tired of all the phone calls wondering if I've had him yet

RedCatWaves 04-29-2012 10:35 PM

What's wrong with big babies? They really aren't any more difficult to birth than small babies. The weight babies gain in the last few days is fat...and fat squishes. You aren't technically "late" until 42 weeks. I suspect you are only 40 weeks and 4 days. Not late at all. 40 weeks is only an average. As long as everything is healthy inside for baby, it's better to let baby come out on their own time. You really can just say "no" to unnecessary induction.

That said, I know how difficult it is to say no to over-ambitious OBs. Keep doing what you're doing...and maybe cancel that appointment and reschedule for Thursday or Friday. They can't bully you if you aren't there.

FieryCurls 04-29-2012 11:03 PM

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Originally Posted by RedCatWaves (Post 1943934)
What's wrong with big babies? They really aren't any more difficult to birth than small babies. The weight babies gain in the last few days is fat...and fat squishes. You aren't technically "late" until 42 weeks. I suspect you are only 40 weeks and 4 days. Not late at all. 40 weeks is only an average. As long as everything is healthy inside for baby, it's better to let baby come out on their own time. You really can just say "no" to unnecessary induction.

That said, I know how difficult it is to say no to over-ambitious OBs. Keep doing what you're doing...and maybe cancel that appointment and reschedule for Thursday or Friday. They can't bully you if you aren't there.

My 8 lb baby wasn't any harder to birth than my 5 lb baby.

ruralcurls 04-30-2012 07:11 AM

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Originally Posted by FieryCurls (Post 1943945)
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Originally Posted by RedCatWaves (Post 1943934)
What's wrong with big babies? They really aren't any more difficult to birth than small babies. The weight babies gain in the last few days is fat...and fat squishes. You aren't technically "late" until 42 weeks. I suspect you are only 40 weeks and 4 days. Not late at all. 40 weeks is only an average. As long as everything is healthy inside for baby, it's better to let baby come out on their own time. You really can just say "no" to unnecessary induction.

That said, I know how difficult it is to say no to over-ambitious OBs. Keep doing what you're doing...and maybe cancel that appointment and reschedule for Thursday or Friday. They can't bully you if you aren't there.

My 8 lb baby wasn't any harder to birth than my 5 lb baby.

My 5 lb baby was the most difficult to birth.

Good luck. I know it can be difficult when you are done, but the baby isn't.

picklesgirl 05-01-2012 05:40 PM

Well went to the Dr today and my BP was up and my fluid was pretty low and I had protein in my urine so we will be inducing tomorrow night

ruralcurls 05-01-2012 06:54 PM

Good luck.

webjockey 05-02-2012 08:33 AM

Best wishes to you. You're almost there!

CurlyCanadian 05-02-2012 06:36 PM

Good luck! Hope all is going well :)

picklesgirl 05-04-2012 02:16 AM

Well I got to the hospital Wednesday night at 5 to be induced with cidotech. The dr went to insert the pill and realized I had progressed enough and broke my water. That was quite the shock I had been planning on laying around all night with nothin happening since the cidotech didn't work on me in my first pregnancy so i was like "y'all it's fixin' to get real, real soon" my labor was not horrible for the most part even after they started the pitocin but at the end the back labor was so intense I thought my back was going to break. Anyway loooong story short Lincoln Marshall was born on Thursday morning May 3rd at 11:15 weighing 8lbs 4oz (I was expecting over 9lbs so I was surprised he was so little) and was 21 inches long (I think I was still pretty high when I was told all the numbers so I can never remember his length) we are both doing great!!!

picklesgirl 05-04-2012 02:20 AM

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