PB Kids has some great non-theme stuff. My boy bedding is from there although it's car and truck themed. It's not something he will outgrow quickly so I didn't mind paying the higher price. FYI, when you find something you like...go look on e-bay. You might find it cheaper.[
I think my problem with the bedding is that I don't want any kind of theme (trucks, sports, whatever), just really nice fabric / design for the baby bedding. And there seem to be more things like that for girl bedding than for boy. Someone suggested PB Kids as somewhere I might find what I'm looking for, so I'll have to check them out.
As for names....I didn't have a choice once we found out it was a boy. He's number V.