ITA - there are far more pressing parenting issues than breastfeeding versus formula feeding.formula isn't a demon product.
i'm an advocate for women doing what's best for their situation. and i hate for mothers who use formula to feel that they are being measured up by others who didn't choose formula. that's what's wrong. and i just don't believe that there are women who are making formula choices because no one informed them about breastmilk, when they could so easily have educated themselves. you can check out books and videos for free at the library. it ain't rocket science.
DS has had about 1 1/2 tablespoons of formula his entire life - that was on the second day in the hospital and my milk hadn't come in. Do I feel badly about that...not a bit!
Also, pumping doesn't always come easily to all women - so stockpilling EBM isn't always possible. I found pumping to be difficult and time consuming...time I'd rather spend cuddling my sweet boy. That being said, had I been more successful at pumping - I would have had a stockpile of EBM.