#1: Afraid to Get My Curly Hair Cut
I have been CG for three years now and have received nothing but terrible haircuts that leave me looking like a boy and a pouf ball and really bad coloring. I've gotten home broke and in tears too many times so I decided that I would never get my haircut again or colored because noone ever knows what they are doing even though they tell me they do. Also whenever they get to do my hair all they always do is complain about how much hair I have. I always have to walk around looking really ugly in awkward hair phases because of bad haircuts and I always have to go back home and dye my hair to it's natural color again. I am going to be starting my first real career job next week. I was trying on suits today in front of the other sales women and my hair didn't seem to go with the suit at all. I don't look like a doctor I look like a lions mane. My hair is covering up my small face and frame. I've let it grow and it's all sorts of browns. I felt embarrased today. I don't want to have anymore awkward transition phases with my hair or look or confidence for that matter. I scheduled a hair appointment with a recommended salon and backed out of it. I am soo scared that I will regret trusting another person with my hair and money again! Should I just leave my hair the way it is or what? Is it possible that curly hair just doesn't suit me even though I was born with it. I have had layers short cuts medium cuts and nothing ever looks right. It's always big looking and if its long it looks like a lions mane and if it's short it looks like a boy. Layers were horrible on me. I'm not sure what to do at this point in my life. HELP!!