How can I get my hair to be permanently straight and silky?

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Hello everyone,

I know in a former post I said that I wanted to wear my hair natural, but I'm still insecure about that...

I've tried usual relaxers and thermal reconditioning, but I've never been satisfied with the outcome. After the treatments my hair was beautiful only until the first time I washed it. After that it turned really dry and fried-looking.
I always took really good care of my hair so I don't understand why it reacts so badly to the chemical straightening. I know these treatments always cause some damage, but why does it work for some of you but not for me? It has never been as silky straight as promised.

Is there anything else I could try? My hair doesn't even need to be pin straight, wavy would be perfect for me. Its natural pattern is 3b.

Thank you,

Galaxy


(Please excuse my english, I'm not a native speaker)
I say learn to love your hair. Your hair isn't the problem its your perception. So do tons of research on how to care for curls and surround yourself with pictures of beautiful curly-haired ladies.

If the chemicals don't do well with your hair maybe its a sign to embrace what u got.

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You can't, any straightening is highly damaging and thus unlikely to leave you with silky feeling hair.
2a-2c, medium texture, porous/ colour treated. Three years CG. Past bra strap length heading for waist.

CO-wash: Inecto coconut/ Elvive Volume Collagen
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Flour sack towel, pixie diffuse or air dry.
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Ok, thanks for your replies
I mean, I'd say to embrace your curls with the techniques on this site BUT it is your hair and you should be able to wear it how YOU want it.

When I used to straighten my hair I used the Japanese Yuko Hair Straightening system. It's something that, of course, needs to be done by a hairdresser and there are a fair few in London that do it. The whole process, if I remember right, takes 4 hours, but the end result really was fantastic.

My hair was SUPER straight and felt really silky and smooth. The effects are permanent, so you just go back to the hairdressers every 6 months or so to have your roots done. I had this done to my hair for years.

However, just be aware this treatment actually completely changes the internal structure of your hair, so I won't say it isn't damaging. Brazilian/Keratin treatments temporarily coat hair with keratin to smooth hair, whereas YUKO reconstructs the protein bond and reshapes the hair to make it lie flat. It rebuilds the hair from the inside and completely alters the structure of your hair. The hair is then sealed in this shape so that, when you re-wash it, it will dry straight.

Some people have said their hair looks and feels better after this treatment (if I remember right it doesn't contain harmful chemicals) and I have had good experiences with it. But, like I said, this does completely reconstruct your hair to make it straight, so once you have it done then there's no going back - you have to wait until your hair grows out!

Do some research and see what you think
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Last edited by BotticelliBrit; 12-16-2013 at 07:32 AM.
I agree with both accepting what you have — it's an uphill battle to fight nature; but I also think BB is right: you should wear what you want.

I would try to think about your reasons for wanting a particular hair type before taking any action. As a wavy who sometimes winds up with straight hair on especially cold, windy days, I personally find straight, silky hair a real drag. Still, it's your choice.

I hope that whatever you decide works well for you.

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When I used to straighten my hair I used the Japanese Yuko Hair Straightening system. It's something that, of course, needs to be done by a hairdresser and there are a fair few in London that do it. The whole process, if I remember right, takes 4 hours, but the end result really was fantastic.
Originally Posted by BotticelliBrit
That's actually what I've tried
I had it done by a hairdresser in a - at least what I thought - really qualified salon. But it turned out really bad. Maybe the hairdresser did something wrong? Or my hair is just extremely sensitive?
That's why I'm so frustrated. It made my hair look so bad I had to cut it down to my shoulders.
That's a nice length, though. Easy to work with.

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That's actually what I've tried
I had it done by a hairdresser in a - at least what I thought - really qualified salon. But it turned out really bad. Maybe the hairdresser did something wrong? Or my hair is just extremely sensitive?
That's why I'm so frustrated. It made my hair look so bad I had to cut it down to my shoulders.
Originally Posted by Galaxy
Yeah, so many of us have had issues with both treatments mentioned. One that comes as a surprise is that lots of folks realize stick straight hair isn't something they really wanted, once they have it. Society keeps sending impossible, conflicting messages lol: Curls and waves come in and out of style and if your hair is straight, it's often expected that it also needs to have body, "character". So out comes the curling wand (which may or may not be effective). Ironic.

You can choose to go natural or not, with the understanding that nature tends to have the last word if you try and fight her.
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That's actually what I've tried
I had it done by a hairdresser in a - at least what I thought - really qualified salon. But it turned out really bad. Maybe the hairdresser did something wrong? Or my hair is just extremely sensitive?
That's why I'm so frustrated. It made my hair look so bad I had to cut it down to my shoulders.
Originally Posted by Galaxy
Oh, really? That's crazy! I had it done for years and never had problems.
Maybe it was the salon? What did they do to your hair exactly (like, what was the process they used?)?

Then again, maybe you just had a bad reaction. Like you said, your hair could be sensitive. I know some people can have problems with treatments like that.

What was the end result? You said it looked bad, but what do you mean? Was it not straight?
Allie

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Pre-poo: Organic Virgin Coconut Oil
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Leave-in: My DNA
Styler: Ouidad Climate Control Heat & Humidity


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Aiming for WL curls (eventually)
A keratin straightening might be able to 'relax' a certain level of curl, but it cannot make coarse hair finer nor get rid of kinks (where hair twists on itself and is fatter and thinner down the length, see diagrams on Natural Haven blog). These could prevent hair feeling soft and silky, aside from the heat damage.
2a-2c, medium texture, porous/ colour treated. Three years CG. Past bra strap length heading for waist.

CO-wash: Inecto coconut/ Elvive Volume Collagen
Treatments: Komaza Care Matani, coconut/ sweet almond/ fractionated coconut oils, Hairveda Sitrinillah
Leave in: Fructis Sleek & Shine (old), Gliss Ultimate Volume, various Elvive
Styler: Umberto Giannini jelly, Au Naturale styling gelee
Flour sack towel, pixie diffuse or air dry.
Experimenting with: benign neglect

Oh, really? That's crazy! I had it done for years and never had problems.
Maybe it was the salon? What did they do to your hair exactly (like, what was the process they used?)?

Then again, maybe you just had a bad reaction. Like you said, your hair could be sensitive. I know some people can have problems with treatments like that.

What was the end result? You said it looked bad, but what do you mean? Was it not straight?
Originally Posted by BotticelliBrit
Well it wasn't "Yuko" but a similar brand and the same treatment.

At first they washed my hair and put some product in it that straightened it. Then they blow-dried and straightened it and used another product of the same brand. It took about 4 hours. My hair looked great right after the treatment but after washing it for the first time 3 days later, it turned really dry and kinda "fluffy", I don't know. A few weeks later it started to look stiff like a brush and really frizzy.

Thank you for helping me, everyone
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Why don't you just go natural but keep your hair straight? Just because a person is natural doesn't mean they have to wear their hair curly. Curly hair doesn't suit everyone. To me it's the same as if someone is naturally a brunette but they go blonde.

You really don't have to have a straightening treatment in your head in order to achieve straight hair. If straightening treatments haven't worked out for you then it's best to stop doing them and keep trimming your hair regularly until all of the straightening treatments are out of your head.

You have a looser curl pattern so you may be able to blow-dry your hair straight. Or you can go to a hair salon to get it done. I spread oil throughout my whole head (especially the ends) before blow-drying and by the end of it no hair is on the floor You may prefer to use a different moisturizer as I don't know if oil with weigh down your hair. Flat-ironing can be more damaging which is why I suggest simply using a blow-dryer.

There's a lot of different products that can protect your hair from frizz. During the spring and/or summer, though, maintaining straight hair will probably get tough. As temperatures rise, you may find yourself having to re-straighten your hair a lot more. I keep my hair curly during all of the hot months, plus I swim a lot so straight hair is very impractical for me during summer.

No matter whether you decide to start wearing your hair curly or you'd rather keep it straightened, find ways to work with your hair instead of trying to fight it.
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If it wasn't Yuko, then perhaps Yuko could work for you? Whatever you do, you should always have a consultation with the stylist beforehand and they should be able to tell you if your hair is in good enough condition, how it would work on your specific hair type etc.

You have a looser curl pattern so you may be able to blow-dry your hair straight. Or you can go to a hair salon to get it done. I spread oil throughout my whole head (especially the ends) before blow-drying and by the end of it no hair is on the floor You may prefer to use a different moisturizer as I don't know if oil with weigh down your hair. Flat-ironing can be more damaging which is why I suggest simply using a blow-dryer.
Originally Posted by GotitorDont
Blow-dryers aren't as bad as flat irons, but they're still pretty damaging (it always makes me laugh when Lorraine Massey calls them blow-fryers LOL). Plus, I get what Galaxy is after; having to straighten your hair everyday or so can be a nightmare, take up SO much time and energy and be damaging. With 3B I can see that taking a lot of time to straighten (as someone with 3A / 3B I know this from experience). Plus a little bit of rain ... BAM. 'Fro time! Hehe
Allie

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Leave-in: My DNA
Styler: Ouidad Climate Control Heat & Humidity


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I'm trying to respect that this straightening forum is for the collective interest of those who want to straighten. But the OP said she does want to wear her hair natural but is just insecure about it, like so many of us have been at the start of our natural hair journeys. Galaxy, want you to know I and a bunch of others here at NC, I'm sure, will help you if you want to bring out your beautiful curls.

Curly hair doesn't suit everyone
Originally Posted by GotitorDont
I question how many naturally curly people would think or say, "Curly hair isn't for me", if we didn't live in a society that heavily pushes Eurocentric, straight/blond hair so hard.

No matter whether you decide to start wearing your hair curly or you'd rather keep it straightened, find ways to work with your hair instead of trying to fight it.
But constantly straightening curly hair means "fighting" curly hair IMO. And constant straightening by any means tends to be more expensive in the long run, both monetarily and to the "health", look and feel of the hair.
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Last edited by Korkscrew; 12-18-2013 at 03:01 PM.
I'm trying to respect that this straightening forum is for the collective interest of those who want to straighten. But the OP said she does want to wear her hair natural but is just insecure about it, like so many of us have been at the start of our natural hair journeys. Galaxy, want you to know I and a bunch of others here at NC, I'm sure, will help you if you want to bring out your beautiful curls.

Curly hair doesn't suit everyone
Originally Posted by GotitorDont
I question how many naturally curly people would think or say, "Curly hair isn't for me", if we didn't live in a society that heavily pushes Eurocentric, straight/blond hair so hard.

No matter whether you decide to start wearing your hair curly or you'd rather keep it straightened, find ways to work with your hair instead of trying to fight it.
But constantly straightening curly hair means "fighting" curly hair IMO. And constant straightening by any means tends to be more expensive in the long run, both monetarily and to the "health", look and feel of the hair.
Originally Posted by Korkscrew
Thanks a lot, Korkscrew

That was such a lovely reply.
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I mean, I'd say to embrace your curls with the techniques on this site BUT it is your hair and you should be able to wear it how YOU want it.
Originally Posted by BotticelliBrit
That's how I see things, too. I love, love, love curly hair (I like other people's curly hair better than my own ) but I also think silky straight hair can be beautiful, too. Everyone is different and everyone gets to make their own choice about how they want to look and what they want their hair to do.


I'm definitely a "curly" 2c. Sometimes curly and sometimes just wavy upper layer with a ringlety under layer. My hair has been thick and coarse since birth. Strawberry blonde in color that can and does change depending on the type and amount of light.


All in all, I'm happy with my hair type but almost for sure think yours is prettier.
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Thermal Reconditioning or Japanese Straighteners by ION worked really well for me. The ONLY reason I am natural now is to get ultra long hair like hip length and below. If that does not happen w/i 2 more years, I may just go back to either Japanese straighteners or try a BKT bc I am really not impressed by frizzy curls at all
There is no such thing as getting your hair "permanently" straight & silky, you have to be born with it...

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