Go Back   CurlTalk > Hair > Straightening/relaxing

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 06-16-2009, 01:49 PM   #1
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 1
Default I straighten my hair way to much...

So i have been straightening my hair for about 2 years becase I hate what my hair looks like curly. And my hair is really damaged becuase of that. I never used any products to protect my hair until like 2 weeks ago. I want to keep straightening my hair but I dont think my hair can take the damage anymore. Any advice on products or what I can do to help with the damage?
Curlygurl23 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-16-2009, 02:31 PM   #2
 
aburdette's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 26
Default you're not gonna like my advice...

stop straightening.

or AT LEAST limit it to once a week or once every 2 weeks. i know how you feel tho... i started straightening almost 4 years ago w/ no protective product at all. and at first... my hair looked great (for about the first 6 months actually) then i realized it was getting SHORTER without me cutting it! and when i would try to wear it curly, it would look AWFUL. the curls were not defined like they used to be, my hair felt ragged and damaged... and SHORT! ugh. so i kept straightening it even tho it was damaged, and eventually it didn't look good CURLY OR STRAIGHT. that's when i knew something had to change....

i reduced the straightening to once a week. then eventually went to once a month and got on the CG method. my hair looks so much shinier and healthier now. i highly suggest you stop straightening all together... or at least do it a lot less.
__________________
3b/4a very fine, avg/high porosity curly looking to GAIN LENGTH!
open to learning all i can from this site and others' advice!!!
currently shoulder-length
DESPERATELY wanna be BSL!!
taking: GNC Ultra Nourish Hair
starting CG routine again
co wash and leave-in: Suave Naturals Coconut (but i've tried them all!)
condish: Giovanni Smooth as Silk
wanting to try: various oils
PUTTING MY HEAT ADDICTION ON HOLD!
CG & (almost) no heat since 6/14/09

aburdette is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-04-2009, 03:20 PM   #3
 
k33rstyn's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 59
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by aburdette View Post
stop straightening.

or AT LEAST limit it to once a week or once every 2 weeks. i know how you feel tho... i started straightening almost 4 years ago w/ no protective product at all. and at first... my hair looked great (for about the first 6 months actually) then i realized it was getting SHORTER without me cutting it! and when i would try to wear it curly, it would look AWFUL. the curls were not defined like they used to be, my hair felt ragged and damaged... and SHORT! ugh. so i kept straightening it even tho it was damaged, and eventually it didn't look good CURLY OR STRAIGHT. that's when i knew something had to change....

i reduced the straightening to once a week. then eventually went to once a month and got on the CG method. my hair looks so much shinier and healthier now. i highly suggest you stop straightening all together... or at least do it a lot less.

My story is almost exactly the same! I started straightening last October and my hair looked great until about March. Then I realized it was so much shorter and brittle. So this summer I've completely stopped straightening. My hair is pretty short for me (just below should length curly,) and doesn't look as nice as it used to. I'm taking hair vitamins and avoiding heat like the plague. Once school starts again, hopefully it will be healthy enough to start straightening it periodically. Really, there's no magic cure. You just have to deal with the grow out process and remember that people are most likely so worried about their own hair that their not thinking about yours!

xoxo
__________________
<3 Kirsten [KEER-stin]

3b

http://public.fotki.com/k33rstyn/currrrls/
password: curls



k33rstyn is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-04-2009, 06:33 PM   #4
 
godgavemecurls82's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 156
Smile hmmm...

throw your flat iron away, cut your hair short and start over again. try the cg method. deep condition your hair once a week. co wash your hair only every couple of days if needed, use a lo-poo or no-poo shampoo (can be any brand, if your not too particular) on your hair once a week. moisturize, moisturize, moisturize. after a few weeks you will notice your hair coming back to life. hair grows a 1/2'' - 1'' every month. the damage wont be there forever. good luck.
__________________

Last edited by godgavemecurls82; 07-04-2009 at 06:35 PM.
godgavemecurls82 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 07-08-2009, 06:35 PM   #5
 
shorticurlz's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2009
Posts: 948
Default

Like the others have said, avoiding heat really is the best thing, but if you are determined to keep straightening, you should get a cut to get rid of the damaged ends, go out and buy a good quality deep conditioning treatment and thermal protecting spray and only straighten every second or third day depending on how often you have to wash your hair. Good luck!
__________________
Fine, very porous 3a
Boycotting all brands owned by L'oreal

shorticurlz is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply
Trending Topics[-]hide

Thread Tools
Display Modes



Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On



All times are GMT -6. The time now is 06:09 AM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.7
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright 2011 NaturallyCurly.com