#1: help! dont know what to do.
My hair looks course and thick but its not. Its very soft and I would like it to be thicker. I don't know how to classify it other than 4a. Between the relaxers, split ends, heat damage (dominican shops for about a year) etc my hair is very damaged. That's putting it lightly. Now at the top of my head I have two large spots where my hair broke off to the roots and is making a pitiful attempt to grow back. It doesn't help that I tried to trim my own hair. SMH. I have 2inch new growth to 10inch transition pieces all over my head now. I fight the urge to BG every day. I don't have the face for it. Short relaxed hair yes close to bald TWA no. I don't know what else to do besides cornrows, hair vitamins and massaging EOs into my scalp every other day. I tried to do 2 strand twist myself last week it was tragic. The 2 spots stood out like they were trying to make a statement. Then the relaxed microthin ends did nothing to help. And since when did some cornrows start costing $60+. My 5 year old daughter has the most beautiful 3a 4a mix. I can't wait for my hair to correct!