I just got reallly mad at my mom and aunt cus they want me to relax my hair. My cousin that was natural for 3 years relaxed today and now they think i'm going to want to do the same. I told them how I want to wear my natural hair, and my aunt said "but you're going to college next year so you have to look pretty!" I got offended. As if my 3c curls are ugly or something? God gave me this hair and I'm not gonna ruin it with relaxers to please anyone.