Hi my name is Taren and I am 13. My hair is about a 3b but I dont know how to style it. I want my hair big and curly but i have a problem where my hair in the front is curlier than the back part. I want to only have one curl pattern but I just have too many. I don't know how to let my natural curl out. Please help. My family has mostly thick african hair and they cant help me!!!