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Ms.Chloe 12-23-2008 11:13 AM

Boyfriends,Husbands & the BC-tell me your stories!
 
Just tryna get an idea of how my caribbean sweetie will like it. He says he's all for it now, but then again..i still have my [COLOR=#000000! important][COLOR=#000000! important]hair[/COLOR][/COLOR] right now. His mom and sister did it so hopefully he understands that i'm doing it so my hair can grow longer and healthier (which i think will be the case).Okay..i just want anybody to tell me their signifacant others reactions to their bc. if you can also tell me how short you went when you did it that would be great. thanks ladies!!

mariag002 12-24-2008 01:39 PM

I had to "prep" the hubby for a few months. He had no idea what the heck I was talking about. All he knew was that I would complain alot and I had alot of bad hair days.

Then one day out of the blue I cut my hair off. He came home from work and was like :o I don't know if he liked it or not. I know that he was not exactly excited about it. He never complained though. My co-workers thought I was absolutely nuts though.

Now that my hair had length my DD seems excited about my hair again. He will smell it (I love fruity scented hair products) and will play with my hair.

As far as my family - my grandma loved it. My grandfather said I looked homeless. My mom hated it, now loves it. My kids thought I was going thru a midlife crisis LOL

Overall I really only remember how I felt... happy as hell and relieved it was finally over and I could concentrate on my natural hair.

jonesybird 12-26-2008 11:32 PM

Hi!


My husband knew I wanted to cut my hair for years. He totally supported me and LOVED my hair before AND after.


"if you can also tell me how short you went when you did it that would be great."


I went from just about waist (at my longest) length to about 5 inches!


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My hair was giving me grief amongst other things. It was so heavy at night I was having neck problems and not very good sleep. I never wore it down! NEVER!! haha So now since its been cut, I have it "done" every day now instead of that crazy bun I always wore!

When I walked out the salon he was so happy for me and said "you look amazing" and "This is so you babe!" He said I look so modern and cool and more older. I especially loved that since people are ALWAYS surprised when I tell them my age and how long I've been married! And he also said "Just beautiful!" and "You are glowing!"


Don't worry! Your husband is going to love your hair! He's going to be happy because you are happy and because of how beautiful you are and will be!


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