So, I got a mini big cut, (aka a really, really good trim). The back is pretty much all natural now, but the top/crown still has relaxer. I am hating it. I can't get it to stop flopping around. There are 2 particular strands, (one on each side, of course), right in the front, I wished with all my heart that if I would not look like a dork, I could cut off. I wish folks with big heads would not procreate, because then I could go for a buzz cut and be done with all of this, but nooooooo, both my parents had/have healthy domes, and they lavishly passed it on to me. Okay, enough. Anybody been here before?