Step 1: I get my hair wet and comb through it with my "sally girl" shower comb. Step 2: I shampoo my hair well and rinse. (Kenra Moisturizing Shampoo) Step 3: Condition my hair and let it sit while I shave,etc. (Kenra Moisturizing Conditioner.) Step 4: Rinse out hair. Step 5: Gently squeeze/scrunch my hair in my towel till it stops dripping. Step 6: Comb through my hair with a wide-tooth comb. Step 7: Run my fingers through gently to loosen my hair up and spray (It's a 10 miracle leave in product) Step 8: Blow dry w/ diffuser on low heat setting!