this is third day hair i believe. I always detangle in the shower with my fingers only. i put an oily cream on my ends only and leave in conditioner and aloe gel in my hair. I also leave a little condition in my hair from when i get out the shower. and then i just let it completely air dry. i find my curls get better definition and less frizz if i put my hair up in a loose messy bun after i put all my product in, and let it air dry like that till about 85%-90% dry then take it down for the rest of the time.