Earlier this evening I was watching a YouTube video on a high curly updo. I'm sitting in front of my PC in awe of this woman's beauty and hair. The style looked easy enough so I made an attempt to recreate it. Didn't quite turn out the same. My curls weren't as defined as hers. I still liked the 'do though. I admit sometimes my hair grinds my gears but this journey has taught me some things. 1)exercise patience in all things it makes the end result that more worthwhile 2)no two coily heads are the same 3)accept that your curls will not do what others will 4)learn to understand what your hair loves. healthy and happy hair = healthy and happy naturalista