"in the curl frizz" is a product of individual strands coming apart from the main curl, something I am also struggling with. What helps is a nice strong hold gel and plenty of moisture. Curl Keeper works well. You might also want to try twisting your strands and curling them around your finger for added control. Absolutely no touching when drying, and keep the handling to a minimum even after it's dry. I always get this kind of frizz when people play with my hair.