Okay. I admit it. I’ve been holding out on you guys. But, in my defense, I did it FOR you! You see, what had happened was …
About a year ago, my girl Dottie of Threadmill (you know, the one who makes satin-lined, crocheted hats for us natural girls … and it IS that time of year) messages me on Facebook:
"I have had a hair epiphany! Do you want to hear about it? I’ve been cowashing lately, and added one moisturizing ingredient to it, and WOWEE, my hair is amazing! It was an experiment that actually worked. My hair is the “heat”! I’ll be doing this at least twice a week! (I’m so excited about my new hair discovery… not sure if it’s an approved thing for natural hair…. but it is surely the thing for mine!!!!)
Maybe someone else thought of it before me, but for me, it’s my own discovery…. And if it is truly a new thing, I want you to have it! (if it’s good for you).
Goats milk lotion… made by an etsy friend. I added 1 part of my favorite no-sulfate conditioner with 1 part of the goats milk lotion, and about 4 parts water, shake it up! Added liberally, washed through my hair, and seriously Shelli, this is the best my hair has EVER looked without styling agents, or heat agents!
My hair is soft, yet has definition, and the curls aren’t frizzy but, they’re refined.I’m literally pingy with my discovery!"
Needless to say, I was intrigued. So, started to do a little research! Check out some of what I discovered:
According to Black Hair 101, the benefits of goat's milk are:
- Make hair soft and manageable.
- Good for dry scalp and especially for dandruff conditions.
- Softens hair and smoothes out nicks or scratches across the hair strand.
- Makes scalp healthier and less prone to dryness.
- When added to other moisture rich ingredients can make hair moisturized and pliable and extremely healthy.
- Goat milk can be added to shampoos, conditioners or used with other nutritious ingredients as a deep conditioner or with tea as a rinse or added to your shea, mango or cocoa butter preparations for hair and skin.
Now, here is where it gets really interesting. Dottie’s friend had to take a hiatus from making her goat’s milk conditioner, so I wasn’t able to get my hands on any. But, in a serendipitous turn of events, a friend of mine at work tells me that her daughter, who is a farmer, just bought nursing goats and she would give me some milk once the baby goats were weaned. Fast forward to a year later (lol) and I finally got 3 freezer bags full of some authentic, straight-off-the-farm, unadulterated goat’s milk! (But, in the interim, I had started using Curl Prep Sweet Buttah. L. O. V. E. Guess what the fourth ingredient is? Yeah. Goat milk.)
So, back in late September or thereabouts, the experimenting commenced. After the first use, I didn’t notice anything particularly amazing. But, on the following wash day, I noticed less shedding and breakage. The same thing occurred after the second use … and the third. By the fourth use, my hair seemed a bit shinier and definitely stronger, with drastically decreased shedding (or breakage as the case may have been).
And now, we get to why it has taken me so long to tell you about the awesome results I have been getting from goat milk conditioner. You see … this stuff is really watery. And kinda sticky. So, my first three treatments with it were NOT cute, though they were effective.
- Experiment #1: Goat’s Milk solo – drippy, somewhat sticky, mess.
- Experiment #2: Goat’s Milk mixed with full fat yogurt – thicker, but still a bit drippy AND it left white, flaky residue, even after two rinses.
- Experiment #3: Goat’s Milk mixed with Sally’s GVP Matrix Biolage Conditioning Balm and honey – improved consistency, no residue, but difficult to mix and still not quite right.
So, finally, I did a little research about cosmetic thickening agents and decided to purchase some guar gum from Amazon. I used it to make a goat’s milk conditioning mask this past weekend and it was LOVER-LY!! After using the treatment as my deep conditioner, I did my new go-to style, the Aloe Vera Gel Braid n’ Twist n’ Curl (BnTnC – I think that I just coined a new natural hair acronym!! LOL!) and had the most AMAZE-A-BALLS results ever on take down the following afternoon!
So, here’s my easy, peasy, recipe:
DIY Goat Milk & Honey Conditioning Hair Mask
- 1/4 c. goat’s milk (2 ice cubes thawed*)
- 1 tbsp honey
- 1 tbsp extra virgin olive oil (EVOO)
- 1 tsp Vatika Oil (Virgin Coconut Oil can also be used)
- 1/4 tsp guar gum
- Mix together goat’s milk, honey, EVOO, and Vatika Oil (I used a spoon, but a mixer or whisk could also be used).
- Slowly stir in guar gum.
- Allow mixture to “hydrate” for 15-30 minutes (this is when it thickens).
- Pour conditioner into an applicator bottle (optional).
Go for yours!!
How to apply
- I applied the goat’s milk mask after washing, conditioning, and detangling my hair.
- I left it on for about an hour with my thermal heat turban,
- Cooled and sealed, and then damp styled.
The next day…
So yeah … goat’s milk is, like, my newest holy grail.