Well I am going to go out on a limb since I am a curly stylist and say this: Too much product for someone with fine hair. Try one thing at a time. I suspect that a little leave in on the hair from the ears down, and Rocking Ringlets only, and see if that doesn't solve the problem. All the other things are soooo heavy for you. I have fine hair and I am always looking for lift. Read up on clipping your roots also. Remember you want to apply product in a scrunching, cupping, squishing way with the curls falling away from your head. If you are applying product to the roots of your hair on top of your head while you are upright, this could be the problem, tip your head over, and then to one side and then to the other side when you apply so the hair is falling away from the scalp.
Try that and let me know if it helps or if you need more coaching untill you get your appointment.