I am more comfortable with the guy asking me out.
I don't think I will ever be comfortable in my own skin or feel attractive enough to make the first move. If a man comes up to me and asks me out, then I know he is serious and wants to get to know me.
"A thing of beauty is a joy forever: It's loveliness increases; it will never pass into nothingness; but will still keep a bower quiet for us, and a sleep full of sweet dreams, and health, and quiet breathing."... John Keats. (Endymion, Book I, 1-5)