I wouldn't be with the man I'm with now if I hadn't made the first move and been aggressive about it. He had all kinds of reasons why we shouldn't go out- I was an intern and he was full time, I was moving back to NJ and he lived in CO....he had laundry to do . I am not normally aggressive like that when it comes to relationships, but I really felt a spark with him.

I voted, Yes, who not.