I wouldn't be with the man I'm with now if I hadn't made the first move and been aggressive about it. He had all kinds of reasons why we shouldn't go out- I was an intern and he was full time, I was moving back to NJ and he lived in CO....he had laundry to do . I am not normally aggressive like that when it comes to relationships, but I really felt a spark with him.

I voted, Yes, who not.
Originally Posted by naturalT
This definitely falls under the kind of situation where I *hope* I'd be able to figure out it was time to make the first move. It's an example of an exception to my rule.

And good for you, NatT, 'cuz he sounds like a great guy!
The pews never miss a sermon but that doesn't get them one step closer to Heaven.

But at least the pews never attend yoga!