oh, I don't care what he does, that's not the issue. I get along with his girlfriend/wife. It's the finances that will be an issue.

1) My father partially supports several people (my mom, my sis, his aunt, and now a couple of his brothers live with him). If something goes wrong, they will be coming to me for support. and there are a couple houses that I'm not sure who owns them and where they are in terms of finances (and one is in the multi-million dollar range)

2) The problem is that every time there is a death in the family, are are scrambling to figure out how to pay for the funeral. I want one a policy for both my parents. My mom is ok with it, my dad doesn't believe in Western Medicine = no physical exam.

Last edited by scrills; 11-05-2009 at 03:40 PM.