I thought I was the only one mad about this...
There are so many people who don't understand.
Don't touch. The worst experience I have ever had, was when a guy at school asked if I used hibiscus in my hair. I thought he was approaching me to get a closer look. He then proceeded to grab two fists full of my fragile, gel-soaked, damp hair and put his face in it. Never again. I avoid him like the plague.