i ordered from butters n bars also and my shea is gritty...i was curious at first but it melt in my hand as it should so it doesnt bother me anymore.

i was actually thinking about trying whipped shea...i will in about another week my hair is in a protective style now so there is no need for it...i just never knew how or what what to use... honestly i still do not know what my hair love im just now trying to take care of it and i bc'd 10 months ago.