My two cents: Slow down and simplify. You are doing SO much at once it's impossible to tell what works and what doesn't. Get back to basics. Three products. A cowash/leave-in, a rinse out, and a gel or mousse. Just use those. Then, if you want to try a new product or method, try one thing at a time. And use it for a few days to see if it works. Then you will know if it makes a difference or not. If you test out a new method, a new conditioner, and a new product all in the same week you will have no idea what is working or why.
CG since 2/23/10!

2B 3A mix, fine texture and high porosity at crown/bangs, normal elsewhere. I like protein!

Trying to grow out a short haircut.

WASH: Jessicurl Cleansing Cream (once every week or so)
CONDITION: Jessicurl Too Shea! or Aloeba Conditioner
STYLE: Jessicurl Gelebration Spray/Awe Inspiraling Spray (PICS OF CG TRANSITION SO FAR) Need to update. No pics with the Jessicurl products yet, but I LOVE them!