here is a pretty good recent picture, admittedly one that does not show all my stupid skin flaws and wrinkles.

so here i am now, closer to 61 than 60. keep saying that i will get the short gray hair and grow it out. i do not want to be like this 85 year old woman i know who has jet black hair and looks very foolish. i want to hang on to my youthful hair and the long length as long as it does not look totally idiotic. i am afraid to move into "grayland" even tho you guys all look so gorgeous with the gray hair. i am so scared it will look awful and i will be catapulted into looking 60+ which after all i am. i liked cindy joseph's look but i wont look like that, or like SBB or jeep or heidi. luckily i color my own hair single process so it does not cost much or require much effort. so i guess i am in the "journey contemplation" stage of the gray journey. you gals do look fabulous tho so i am thinking very seriously of doing it. if there was an easy way to do it and keep my hair long i would be much happier...
Susan suburban NY
3b going gray, not thick, waist length when wet, a bit below shoulders when dry
CG since 11/11/04
PW: banjo
HG: suave and honey for co-wash, deva, i use garnier fructis regular CO's or boots pink or white as leave ins and LA looks sport gel. plop w microfiber turban, then curl towel scrunch, then another turban.i sleep with the turban on. little one minute hair styling videos