Hmm I'm guessing that it's the way you're putting in your products rather than the products themselves which is causing your issue. If I were you I'd check out some product application videos on youtube to get a technique down. There are a couple options and you just need to experiment to find out what's best for your hair. A couple good ones are the mysteryflavored KCCC video (I've used her technique even with different products) and the Ouidad rake and shake video

I'm sure other people can come up with other good ones. Hope this helps!