I am looking for a gel, and I want it to be able to fight frizz, give good my curls/waves good definition but still leave my hair soft.. any reccomendations wavies?
Have you tried Dep Curl Cream Gel? So for it's the only "gel" that I've had any luck with.

So far I have not found a regular non-creamy gel that works for me the way I want it to. But there are two on my list to try: Loreal Curl Vive spray gel (I saw Laurabeth33 posting about this in other threads) and Tizz No Frizz from Aussie. I'd also like to try Curl Keeper and Batia and Aleeza but it's not in my budget right now.
Sporting: Long hair that can't make up its mind. Wavy? Curly? Straight? It's anyone's guess!