I've tried all of the products you mentioned in your post. I prefer the Curl Junkie products hands down, but I'm a 3A, fine, and my hair gets weighed down easily. I found the Whipped Cream and the Souffle were just too heavy for my hair, but it sounds like they might work better for what you're looking for. Of the Curl Junkie creams, I liked the Guava Cream the best (the one without the protein). I'm currently using the Banana leave in for fine hair over B & A gel and am really liking the results.

Hope that helps